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29moments

Each year, around my birthday, I reflect back on some of the things and the moments that made the past year great. This year's "moments" list was harder to create than others. Not because there were less good things but because in some ways it was our most normal yet. No moves. No deployments. No pregnancies. No babies.

We just lived. We worked hard, we played hard, we grew and here are 29 of the moments that stick out for me:

selling out of the magic letterpress prints.

March 21, going out to dinner with Paul and Ellerie and feeling completely like myself for the first time since I had a baby. And then, shortly after, I lost that feeling. But eventually it came back. And then it left around Easter again. But finally, it came back for good.

learning how to crochet with a circle of wonderful women up in Oregon.

the extra hour of sun that daylight savings brings; always one of my favorite times of year.

heading to Palm Springs with Paul.

seeing my first tomatoes appear.

taking Ellerie to the library on her 1st birthday.

walking on stage at WDS.

dancing, later than night at WDS when all the pressure of the last two months was off me.

making it to Austin to see my girlfriends for a few days.

coming up with the idea for Get To Work Book.

laughing our way to the top of the aisle in a beetle.

staying up until 5 in morning chatting about life and work in Eugene.

picking up Ellerie from her first day at daycare and realizing we had both survived.

seeing the head tilt in that roll of film.

seeing Bastille in concert.

playing drinking games in Berkeley before Big Game.

Thursday mornings in the fall, driving Ellerie to daycare and listening to the latest Serial podcast.

when Ellerie learned how to give kisses.

pressing publish on a brand new look for the blog.

Paul's face when he comes home from work and sees Ellerie.

riding the roller coaster at Disneyland and screaming as loud as possible.

the other day when Paul brought Ellerie home from daycare and I walked outside when I heard the car and she lifted her arms up and SQUEALED to see me.

all the evenings when we decide to skip our current plan and walk up to KnB for a beer and appetizers.

any and all slow weekend mornings when we head out as a family for a really great cup of coffee.

any and all mornings where I got to sleep in.

pulling my shorts out of storage last week.

last weekend, running in the grass and feeling like this parenthood gig wasn't hard. In fact, for a moment, it felt easy.

and to borrow one from last year, the moment that will always be my favorite, even if I live 100 lifetimes : all those evenings when it's the three of us in kitchen and work is done and the baby is happy and dinner is cooking. My life is in those evenings. My heart is in those evenings.

ps. 28 moments, 27 moments, 26 moments

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29 responses to “29 favorite moments.”

  1. Johanna Avatar

    Running in the grass. You’re doing SO great, mama. Just fly up high and look at you and your family, running in the grass.

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  2. Melissa Marie Avatar

    So well written, Elise. I love this. 🙂

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  3. Katie Avatar
    Katie

    Sounds like a great year to me. I bet looking back at these 2014/15 “moments” will be all the more special. Remembering the end of a deployment or the birth of your first child – that’s easy. But remembering how many moments in between were magical – that’s gonna be so fun. In ten years you’ll think: that’s right, I loved Thursdays…

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  4. Mickie Avatar

    Absolutely beautiful Elise. I am sitting here, sipping my coffee, with five or so minute to spare before I leave the house for the morning, and I was already feeling pretty good, (it’s minus 21 here, but the sun’s out in full force) and then I read this post. Such a gorgeous piece to read first thing.
    Thanks :). Enjoy your day.
    – Mickie

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  5. Lucy Avatar
    Lucy

    These are all such beautiful moments. And that last one really nails it. I thought immediately of the phrase on this pin. Honestly, it’s probably from a greeting card, but I think about it often and find to be completely true: https://www.pinterest.com/pin/17451517282776260/

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  6. Elizabeth Avatar

    This is so precious and beautiful! You’ve created a lovely life for your family!

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  7. Hannah Avatar

    What a lovely list, these sound like such special and precious moments! It must be so enjoyable to reflect like this!
    Hannah x
    Hanniemc.co.uk

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  8. Megan Avatar

    such a peaceful list to read. it’s often hard to remember those ‘normal’ daily things, but slowing down and taking the time to think about them reminds you to really take in everything each day.

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  9. Emily Avatar
    Emily

    These 29 reasons are why I love you and keep coming back to your blog every. single. day.

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  10. Carly Friesen Avatar

    Elise, these are lovely. Thanks for sharing in such a genuine way 🙂
    ps. Your “March 29” moment, is so honest and lovely, and I can only imagine how much hope it gives a new mom to read that.

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  11. kristina Avatar

    In the same way I have been re-reading your wedding archives as I plan our wedding, I know that I will one day re-read your new mama archives when we have a baby. You strike an incredible balance here. Thank you for sharing the hard moments too, like losing yourself and getting yourself back. Thank you for sharing how they have shaped you, and how they sometimes translate into the happiest feeling in the world. I can’t even imagine how many new mama lives your blog has touched if I sometimes get teary eyed reading your posts. “Normal life” suits you three well. You seem to grow so much every year – Paul must feel so proud of you. YOU must feel so proud of you.

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  12. Anna Avatar

    This is quite possibly my favorite post of yours every year. And I know exactly what you mean about having a “normal” year. I felt the same about 2014. There weren’t any big changes, good or bad – I didn’t get engaged or married or change jobs or start a new degree or move across the country. But looking back through my photos for the year reminded me how much magic it held. I should do a list of favorite moments from the year to capture what photos sometimes can’t. (I don’t want to wait until my birthday in July!)

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  13. Brianna Avatar
    Brianna

    Again, so great.

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  14. Reagan Avery Avatar

    love these lists. I don’t think I follow any other blogs that seem this real and make me feel like the magic is in those special little moments. thanks for sharing it all – the good and the bad.
    Reagan
    hellonvmbr.blogspot.com

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  15. Grace Nixon Peterson Avatar

    This is so lovely! I felt like I was right there with you, savoring all of those big and small moments. Thank you for sharing!

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  16. Amanda M. Avatar
    Amanda M.

    I really appreciate your honesty with the post partum stuff. I would personally love a post about how (March 21) you felt completely like yourself for the first time post-baby, then you lost that feeling, then it came, left and came back. I am in that right now. Took me 5 months, then I felt like myself, then I lost it again. I am back in the loss now. I’d love to read more about your experience with the ebb and flow, how you emerged, how you got yourself back “for good” (how do you really know it’s for good?) etc.

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  17. elise blaha cripe Avatar

    you are so right. thank you Katie. 🙂

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  18. elise blaha cripe Avatar

    beautiful Lucy, thanks for sharing. 🙂

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  19. elise blaha cripe Avatar

    oh, this would be good. I will think on how I can get it into words for a post. hang in there Mama. I thought I was “back for good” so many times. It been months now since a really tough spell and so I feel “back” but maybe I am just “better” at life and so it feels good? I don’t know. But I do know time heals. And making time for YOU is so important. xxo

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  20. robyn Avatar
    robyn

    You are a wonderful writer. I read that last paragraph and thought, “That’s it exactly. Just perfectly worded to describe how i feel.” Love your blog. Read it first everyday.

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  21. Sara Westfall Avatar

    Happy 29! Through your writing you can feel you see and find beauty in everything. We have been thinking about starting a family and frankly are terrified about it. That last line though made me even more excited about the possibility of having a third person to share the happiness and magic of those evenings with.

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    janet

    Sometimes we forget how good ‘real’ life can be. Great list.

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  23. Penny Avatar
    Penny

    How do you best remember all of these special moments? Is it just quiet time reflecting on the year or do you document these moments as they happen in some way? Such a great way to remain thankful and positive. It’s inspiring to read your list and makes me want to document my own.

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  24. elise blaha cripe Avatar

    I always go back and re-read the past years (not sure how that first list was made!) and that sort of helps me think through the most recent year. I think on it for a few days too and make tweaks. 😉

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  25. Christine Avatar
    Christine

    I love your focus on stopping to appreciate the good stuff. Sometimes the hard or ugly stuff can be so loud and in your face, it drowns out the good stuff. A nice re-shuffle to the front is such a lovely place for those good things. I think the hard has to yell louder next time to be heard.

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    dawn

    I love this idea and your lists, so many little simple things that bring us such joy.
    Read your E & E post below too, always so cute!!
    By the way do you keep a gratitude/thankful journal, can’t remember if you mentioned it before. This list reminds me of it.
    Happy weekend. I’m loving your sunny photos as we are freezing, gives me hope that spring is somewhere if not here.

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  27. JC Avatar

    I don’t have a baby but I totally agree with those evenings. My fiance plays guitar sometimes in the kitchen and we sing together while I cook. It’s totally magic.

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    majie28

    Awesome write-up! I’ve always liked Blooody Mary mixes. Speaking of which, my fave of all is LAVA Bloody Mary Mix (www.lavabmm.com) made with non-gmo San Marzano tomatoes. Just add my Goose and I’m good to go!

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