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Movinghome

I am so inspired to be moving into a new house today.

This will be our third move in less than three years, but it will be the last one for at least 4.5 years. I don't even know what to do with that much time. It feels like forever and ever compared to what we have dealt with in the past.

I have never thought about setting up a place for longer than a year and the possibilities are so exciting.

We'll have enough time to make some real changes if we want them. We'll have time to rearrange furniture and shift things that are not working. We'll have time to replace the carpet in the office with hardwood. We'll have time to re-tile our master bathroom shower like this. We'll have time to figure out exactly how the fireplace works and then actually use it.

We'll have time to landscape the big overgrown part of our backyard. We'll have time to learn from our my gardening mistakes and grow bigger and better tomatoes. We'll have time to plant succulents in the front yard. We'll have time to change paint colors (though right now, I cannot imagine not keeping the gorgeous cream). We'll have time to add a fire pit in the backyard for roasting marshmallows and drinking wine around in the evenings.

This is going to be our home everyday for years. We'll host Thanksgivings and celebrate multiple Christmases here. We'll see baby girl learn to walk here, talk here and form her own opinions here. If we're lucky, we'll have the pleasure of bringing another baby home here.

We'll work on our marriage here. We'll battle over silly stuff here. We'll call the plumber when a pipe breaks and get frustrated over slow internet here. We'll make big mistakes here. We'll have days where we'll wonder what the hell we were thinking when we bought a house here.

We'll cook dinners and eat breakfast here. We'll watch TV and open up another bottle of wine here. We'll become parents here. We'll laugh until we cry here. We'll learn so much about love here. We'll have days where we cannot believe our good fortune to have bought this house here.

I am so grateful to be taking this giant step today.

And to Paul, who is reading the blog again now that we're a world apart, I love you. I love you for taking me on this journey with you. I love you for picking me as a partner and for dreaming big with me everyday. You asked me long ago to look at our life in the military as an adventure and back then, I could not see anything but the hard bits. Today I see the hard bits, but they pale in comparison to the possibilities. Thank you for sharing this one life with me.

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80 responses to “moving home.”

  1. Jennifer Avatar

    What a sweet post! I want to give you a huge hug, and I don’t even know you! Congratulations on this beautiful step, one of many huge steps ahead of you this year. May all goodness come to you and your loves!

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  2. Rose Joy Avatar
    Rose Joy

    Elise my eyes are filled with tears. His words are exciting.
    I wish all the best in his new home. You and Paul deserve the best, always! Congratulations and God bless your new home!

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  3. Robin J Avatar

    Ah! So many of your posts make me cry, especially lately. I’m so happy for you!

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  4. Lauren @ Sassy Molassy Avatar

    Aw, I love this last paragraph!! Congrats on the new home.

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  5. Debbie Avatar

    BEAUTIFUL!!!!!

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  6. Liz Avatar
    Liz

    Congrats on your new home; glad you made it safely. I am sure you will make it a lovely, cozy home!

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  7. libbywilko Avatar
    libbywilko

    Wishing you all the best ! Loved the post πŸ™‚

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  8. Mel Avatar

    You are forever making me tear up. Congratulations!!

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  9. Mere Avatar

    So beautiful. I cried reading it. Thanks for sharing these lovely pieces of your life with us.

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  10. Mary Sara P. Avatar

    Congratulations. Reading this made me so happy for you in this next Chapter of this journey. Wishing you much blessings and happiness in your new home.

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  11. susi davis Avatar
    susi davis

    I always enjoy the positive way you choose to look at your life whether you are sharing a joyful experience or in the weeds. I sure wish I had been more like you in my early adult years. You are such an amazing young woman and I am so excited for you, Paul and your Baby Girl as your family grows in your beautiful new home.

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  12. Brianna Avatar
    Brianna

    Well said. I admire your ability to handle whatever life throws at you, good and bad, with grace and positivity.

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  13. Sheryl Avatar
    Sheryl

    Congrats on your new venture!!!

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  14. Sarah Avatar

    Elise,
    Thanks for this post! I couldn’t agree more on moving. We have moved so much in the past five years — five times, ugh — and we are soon getting orders to live in one place for 3 WHOLE YEARS! (San Diego is our second option!) πŸ™‚ While I’m very excited to be rooted more so than what we have been, I almost wonder if after a year or two I’ll be feeling ready to move on again. The joys of military living…
    Have fun settling in to your new house! πŸ™‚
    Sarah

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  15. Kathi Avatar

    So excited to share in this chapter of your lives as you and (when he gets home) Paul and your new baby girl get used to life as a family.
    My shower looks much like yours but has cool hexagon tile in the bottom… it is so much fun to look at while in the shower… just think about that! lol
    We just moved into our FOREVER home. It was a difficult move but since it may be our last move for the foreseeable future it is fun making the changes we want!
    Congrats and don’t get too worn out in the move.. baby girl needs you and her daddy too! lol
    Kathi

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  16. Kathy Martin Avatar

    I’m so excited for you! Yes, so much living will happen for you in your new home! Enjoy every moment!

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  17. kelly thompson Avatar

    yeah, happy birthday to your home!

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  18. Melissa Avatar
    Melissa

    LOVE!! TFS πŸ™‚

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  19. Wendi Avatar
    Wendi

    So…
    I’m not a big commenter, but I’ve been a reader for quite some time now. I’m really appreciating the message I get from you that things are hard, but there is a purpose to the struggle. I’m trying to take your lead and feel appreciation also.
    You feel like a friend. Thanks.

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  20. Wendi Avatar
    Wendi

    You know, after I posted, I went back and read through the comments. You know we’re all rooting for you guys, right?
    I hope that makes you feel less lonely.

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  21. Skye Avatar

    This made me tear up. So sweet to think about all the future memories there. Huge congratulations!

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  22. elise blaha Avatar

    πŸ™‚ thanks Wendi!

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  23. Koko @ Koko Likes Avatar

    CHILLS AGAIN! Love this!!!!

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  24. Debie Grace Avatar

    Awwww your message to Paul made me teary-eyed. Take care both of you and your growing family. You guys are an inspiration! πŸ™‚

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  25. Jaque Avatar

    Beautiful words, Elise. Good look! I am sure you all will be very happy there!

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  26. Elias Madden Avatar

    Very well said! It’s so sweet of you to say these things to your husband. If my wife gets to read this, she will surely cry. I hope that moving your stuff to your new home was a success. I know you both are going to be wonderful parents. All the best!

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  27. Lakisha Zimmerer Avatar

    Hello, Elise =) I just love the idea of landscaping the big overgrown part of the backyard. That would be great. Having a transient residence is challenging and exciting at the same time. I bet, thought, that for Paul, your new house is still home because his heart is there. ❀ Hmmm, I think you could try repainting the home in a way that would surprise your hubby when he returns. πŸ™‚

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  28. Peter BMS Avatar

    I think moving house is such an exciting time! It’s the perfect opportunity to start fresh and get rid of some old junk. Best wishes to you and Paul πŸ™‚

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  29. Raul Porter Avatar

    Moving home is really tough time for some people. My opinion is that it depends on you how you are going to feel about it. It could be very pleasant actually. Greets!

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