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Making lots of progress this week. Crossing stuff off my list like it's my job.

I gotta be honest though, I am currently struggling to bring a better work / life balance into our normal weeks. The trouble with traveling on the weekends (when I usually put in a decent amount of computer time) is that I get totally "behind" and I feel like I could work from 8am-10pm every weekday. But Paul gets home at about 4:30 in the afternoon (great right?! almost makes up for that seven month deployment…) and ignoring him to sit at my computer seems pretty lame.

I'm not yet sure of the solution (nor do I think there is a perfect one!). I have had some insanely awesome opportunities come forward this year and I am so excited to work at all of them. But, to be fair to what I have committed to and to myself, I am absolutely learning to let some things go. It's quite a challenge, as I have spent the last five years working hard to develop this job of mine (and most of that came from saying "yes!"). Now I just have to remember that I am working to live, not living to work.

Deep thoughts for a Friday morning, no?

Really, though, life is good. I'm thrilled & so grateful to be here and happy to recognize now, when things still feel manageable, that I have to be careful with my schedule and considerate of my time.

Looking forward to throwing myself into this last workday & then enjoying a weekend at home.

*anticipating photo questions! The magic & ampersand stamps will be in the shop update – tentatively scheduled for September 10. That painting is the first stage of another attempt at "abstract". Once again, I am failing to make abstract look good. Paul and I were so thrilled to welcome a set of quintuplet tomatoes into our house last Wednesday. We are still picking out names.

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23 responses to “around here.”

  1. Leah Buckley Avatar

    oh man, omnivore’s dilemma is SUCH a good book. totally changed my perspective on food.

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  2. rachel Avatar

    Haha. I like your little “anticipating photo questions” footnote. 🙂 Is that ampersand stamped onto a sheet of cork?! It looks very cool.

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  3. Leah Avatar

    Yup, the work/life balance. It never really goes away. And yep, it’s best to deal with it before you get stressed out and anxious and can’t sleep (this is from my personal experience).
    I’ve found it’s hard, but so worth it, (and I’m sure you know this too), to not work as much in order to spend time with a real-life person who means a lot to you.
    But yeah, hard to step away from the productivity.

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  4. Skye Avatar

    I love the page of ampersands! How exciting for you to have so many opportunities. It is really hard to say no, but so worth it for your sanity and work/life balance.

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  5. Itsjustluc Avatar

    This post reminds me of something I read the other day about replacing the phrase “I don’t have time” with “It’s not a priority.” It made me think of you at the time and your posts on goals and work/life balance and how inspiring all of those have been for me. It’s so true how there is time for everything that matters, we just have to decide what that is and make it happen.
    Also? This: “Crossing stuff off my list like it’s my job.” is funny. Because it kind of is, right? 🙂

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  6. Janet K Avatar
    Janet K

    Your tomatoes are beautiful!!
    I read The Omnivore’s Dilemma earlier this summer….very interesting…
    Enjoy the rest of your summer!!

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  7. Lindsey Avatar

    Still picking out names so funny!!

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  8. Dalyce Avatar

    Thank you for sharing these thoughts as I think so many people struggle with this and women especially. I feel like I could work until midnight each night also, but then m husband and children are left out. Not cool. Also, I really like your painting. The colors are some of my faves for painting.

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  9. Jannie Avatar
    Jannie

    Hi Elise,
    Is that a minibook cover I see, with the &?
    Kind regards,
    Jannie

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  10. elise blaha Avatar

    It is! For a project I am not sharing yet. 🙂

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  11. elise blaha Avatar

    Yes, I have read that too. SO helpful to think of it like that.

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  12. elise blaha Avatar

    it is! just a cheap sheet of cork scrapbook paper from michaels. 🙂

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  13. Amanda S. Avatar

    We loved the Omnivore’s Dilemma, such a good book! Can’t wait to see what you think. Also love the ampersand book cover… very cool!

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  14. Zarah Avatar

    I love your clipboard wall! That granola & coffee looks pretty darn good, too.

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  15. Molly Avatar
    Molly

    I think that painting looks great as-is! just leave it, very abstract.

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  16. Emily Avatar

    Work/life balance is a hard one to wragle. I telecommute from home and also get that guilty feeling when I’m on the computer after 5:00 or 6:00 when my husband gets home. My mother in-law and I were just talking babout how there are two different types of peolpe, either those who work to live or live to work. I definitley fall into the former category, too!

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  17. emily s Avatar
    emily s

    Love the cork mini book cover! Putting that on my crafty-to-do list 🙂

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  18. rachel Avatar

    Thanks! I didn’t know that existed. I guess I ought to spend even more time at Michaels… 😉

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  19. Kathy Avatar

    your tomatoes are looking great and I think it is a great idea to stop work even at 4.30pm when Paul gets home. At the end of the day while we are people/customers Paul is real, Paul is your life and you and him come before any of us. Living real life is the number 1 priority. There will always be more stuff to do always…..

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  20. elise blaha Avatar

    Thank you so much, Kathy!

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  21. Jannie Avatar
    Jannie

    I will wait.. but not too long please! Congrats with your kit!

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  22. Lindsay Avatar

    So true, I feel totally dedicated to my job, and my blog~ BUT I could really work on them all the time. I am delightfully obsessive by nature, and this month I’ve really tried to halt that, or at least use it to benefit and not bereft. I am now setting aside “work time”. For choreography, for blogging…I have a set few hours for it and then I WALK AWAY. Or else I will be there all night. And after three years of back to back deployments, my honey and I need that time too;) So keep walking away…it’s freeing! And the work will be there again when you’re ready;)

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  23. Brianna Avatar
    Brianna

    As a freelancer, I find that I have a hard time keeping a normal work/life balance. If I’m home, I feel like I should be working. If I’m out, I feel guilty and want to get home to work. I spend too many hours in front of my computer, but that’s the nature of writing. I need to give myself a schedule, maybe.

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