enJOY it

an archived personal and craft blog from Elise Blaha Cripe.

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Thank you for your workshop ideas last week. I am letting them all percolate a little bit. I think I am on the verge of something good – but who knows? We'll see what comes out if it. One of the comments from that post sent me off on a bit of a mental tangent and I haven't been able to get it out of my head. And so I wrote this post about it.

Today I want to talk about staying inspired. Especially as a blogger, but also for life in general.

To start, I am absolutely not always inspired. Some days all I want to do is sit on the couch and watch Parks & Rec. And some days, I do.

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I have been keeping this blog for over six years. That means I have written something almost everyday for way too many days. I have had times when my brain was overflowing with good ideas and times when I was sure I was done. Shut it down; it's all been said. The most important thing I have done over the past six years is realize that for me, creativity ebbs and flows. It doesn't mean I need to panic when I'm out of ideas, it just means I need to be patient. (It also means I shouldn't start knocking out two posts a day when things are flowing, but for some reason I always forget that.)

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The second thing that I always keep in mind that Blogland is not a zero-sum game. I am in competition with exactly no one. There is no limit to the amount of blogs that someone can read and I don't have to try and make my blog "better" than any other site. I can't worry about how many eyeballs a post will receive or how many retweets or pins or likes or +1s or diggs or anything else. It's a vicious, panic-inducing circle to get caught up in and so I do my best to not.

And usually that really works. Although it also means that I am all over the place. Sometimes I'm writing about bread or fabric or paper or food or decorating (and sometimes that's all in one week). It's impossible for me to explain what my blog is about to a person I just met. (I normally mumble something confusing and change the subject.) But I stick with the "blog about whatever" concept because it's authentic. After six years, I have realized that this blog struggles when I try to fit into a certain mold or write about a specific thing. So I don't. I just write.

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I have decided to make blogging more than just a hobby and because of that, I work to have a post ready every weekday morning. It's semi-non-negotiable. I don't always have an idea on the tip of my fingers and so often, I have to go looking. These are my few favorite ways to get myself inspired :

Set a new challenge. Big projects are sort of this blog's (and my personal) lifeline. I work best with goals. In the past (and present) that has been everything from decorating a playing card everyday to baking 40 loaves of bread to completing 26 craft projects before my birthday to running a mile a day. I always think I'll be relieved to finish a project, but in reality, without a challenge hanging over my head, I struggle to find a focus and "a point." So for me, challenges are super inspiring. I am already dreaming up the next few to share this spring.

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Look back on past work. The Internet is vast. There are a lot of people doing a lot of things and that can be inspiring or paralyzing, depending on how you are motivated. Sometimes, when I am searching for a new idea, I am overwhelmed by what everyone else is doing and find that looking at my own work can be helpful in giving me a springboard to jump off. I check out my own photos on flickr, my own scrapbook albums or my own blog archives. Remembering how I looked at something in the past can inspire me in the present.

Change location. I have said this before, but none of my good ideas come when I am sitting in front of the computer. In fact, I think they start to slip away the second I sit down. This post was developed in my head while I was driving home from the grocery store. Most, if not all, of my product ideas were created while I was watching TV or taking a shower or in the middle of a run. Sometimes (and this is embarrassing) I write posts in my head about an event while said event is happening. I don't really recommend that, but I can't turn it off.

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Create boundaries. This is a bit harder to apply to blogging, but awesome to apply to other creative ventures. It can be hard to know where to start with a big project. I have found that narrowing my choices is actually crazy liberating because it helps me to just start. A great example I saw of this recently was on Cakies blog. Ruby and her husband made Christmas gifts for each other. But before they started they asked another couple to set restrictions on what sort of supplies they could use. They each had the same products available and created two wildly different and awesome projects. I also see this concept at work on Project Runway all the time. When the contestants have "no restrictions" the results are often boring. But when they are challenged with making clothes out of car parts? The results are usually fantastic and certainly more interesting. It's easier to think outside the box when you are in a box. Weird, right?

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Just make stuff. Sometimes what I make is garbage. Sometimes what I write is garbage. It's the only way to get through the bad ideas to the good ideas. I refuse to consider the time spent on a blog post that will never be published or a craft project that hits the trash as "wasted time." It's all part of the process. Write, write, write. Make, make, make. Don't be afraid to cross-out or delete or start over. The more times you mess up, the closer you are to the good stuff. One of my favorite questions is, "What's the worst that can happen?" That really puts things in perspective for me. If the answer isn't that you or someone else will get hurt or die (and with writing or making it usually isn't) it's probably a good idea to go for it.

Keeping with this theme, here's a post on motivation and here's a semi-recent blogging & crafting Q&A.

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59 responses to “quite a long ramble on staying inspired.”

  1. Amy Avatar
    Amy

    Elise, you’re right. There are a lot of blogs out there but I have to tell you….you are my go to site. If I want inspiration or a diversion or sometimes a good laugh, here’s where I come. Regardless what you are posting about, I love it. You have a great writing style and your art is awesome.

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  2. Kelly Cree Avatar
    Kelly Cree

    Good stuff, Elise! Love seeing the inside of your creativity and thinking process.
    By the way-I’m eager to see the final result of your driftwood collection project. The “teaser” photos are killin’ me! 😉

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  3. Sandi Keene Avatar

    I love that I feel like I “know” you. If your blog was all about one topic, whatever that may be, I would not feel like I knew all the different sides of you. I enjoy the diversity of posts and the realness of you. That’s why I have been coming back for years now. Thank you for sharing “you” with us!

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  4. JCasa *handmade Avatar

    you are a wise one, elise. you possess a special ability to inspire + nudge and never to judge. a terrific teacher. xoxo

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  5. Lúthien Avatar

    You are totally right! And the funny thing is… I know this. I think we all do. But it’s really really good to have this pointed out to you (again) Thanks!

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  6. JayEssJay Avatar

    I love a good challenge. Rather than pushing the boundaries all the time, I find I’m more creative when I embrace the box. Especially when the challenge allows me to explore different incarnations of the same basic idea. Maybe the next class/workshop/etc is to lead a great challenge. I’d certainly play along with that!

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  7. Rose Avatar

    love this post. Thank you. I agree – whenever I’ve tried to fit my blog into a certain niche, it tends to fail. That’s why I started over, with a new blog where the common thread is just me.

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  8. Cecilia Madden Avatar

    I love insight into how creative people think/work and how you achieve a balance between inspiration and creation. Thanks for this post.

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  9. Kacie Avatar
    Kacie

    That line in the Creating Boundaries paragraph is so killer, and so so true:
    “It’s easier to think outside the box when you are in a box”
    This is totally resonating with me today. Thanks Elise!

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  10. Lisa Avatar

    Words of wisdom! Some of my better ideas come at the most random of times and that’s what makes it all fun.

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  11. Mary Kay Avatar
    Mary Kay

    In reading your blog for the past year I’ve always been very impressed by you. Myself as a mother of two girls in their 20s, I think about all that you are at your relatively young age. Your wisdom and your productivity are truly inspiring. Your mother must be very proud of you – I know I would be!
    I love your word for 2012 – I “chose” it for myself as well.
    Glad to hear you have days watching Parks & Rec. on the couch – love that show!

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  12. Lauren Avatar

    I love this! Especially “change location”. It’s so easy to get caught up reading 1239827361 blogs and thinking “ah, that is sooo cool” or “not fair, she gets to write about children!” but going out and doing/seeing/creating is what gets me excited about my own stuff all over again. (which is good, because our own stuff is the stuff we get to live with, after all).

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  13. noomiy Avatar

    Absolutely love this post! 🙂 Really useful and inspiring 🙂

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  14. Adrienne Avatar

    Glad to know I am not alone. This has been a huge focus for me lately (inspiration, creativity, just making, not trying to fit a mold with my blog) and it’s always good to get someone elses take it on it as well.

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  15. Trish Avatar

    I love this message! Well put! You are so right on. I love writing on my blog. I do it for me. And it’s most likely boring and uninteresting and not relevant to most people. But, I LOVE IT! and I love your blog, too. Thank you for your everydayness!!

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  16. All Of A Sudden Life Is Amazing Avatar

    I love blogging, too. It’s become an outlet and a quick way for me to document my life. I just need to get it on paper again! And who doesn’t like getting compliments on a post?! Your blog is one of my favorites! Love your creativity, focus, and your ability to follow through.

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  17. Jules Hollis Avatar

    this is an awesome post! loved reading it. Great advice for people like me – trying to decided where to take their blog and how to manage it. Thanks.

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  18. Jillian Avatar

    This is great, Elise! Thank you!

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  19. Katrina Avatar

    Even though I’m a fairly new reader, I’ve spent a bit of time reading through your past posts (that makes me sound like a stalker). We’re far apart in location & age – but I feel like we could sit down over a bottle of wine (or pot of coffee. or both.) and have a nice long chat. Love reading your insights.

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  20. krugthethinker Avatar

    This is such a great post, Elise. I love what you said about writing about what you’re doing and not worrying about fitting it into a specific framework. I love your blog because it is so you, because you are so real and so honest. I love seeing the things you make and hearing about the things you are thinking about, whatever they may be. You are such an awesome inspiration. Thank you for sharing your life with us!

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  21. Nadia Avatar

    brilliantly said beautiful elise! I wanted share with you some things about your blog that keep me coming back – everyday! I love that you are YOU! I love that you are not promoting something down my throat each time I come to read your blog. I love that you set goals and I get excited for you as you work through them. kind of like a mother hen watching her little chick! I love that you share the lessons you have learned about materials, paints and home dec. I guess what I want to say is to just keep doing what you are doing. yes, I agree there are TONS of blogs out there but yours is the one I have been following for years and yours is the one that is on my bookmark bar and yours is the one I check out each day to find out how you are, what you are up to and cheering you on as you work through each day till paul returns. you are a rockstar elise! ciao!

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  22. creole wisdom Avatar

    I think this is my favorite post of yours, and I’ve been reading your blog since 2006ish. Very well done and gracefully written.
    I have been going through reader this week and hearing so much about Alt, which in essence is a good thing, but I think stuff like that causes more damage than good. Maybe that doesn’t make sense, but I truly respect bloggers who have chosen a different route than excessive monetizing and writing for an audience versus themselves.
    I love that you write for you and have shared your highs and lows. I’ve missed your cute wardrobe flickr photos and was excited for you when you shared with us that you would be spending more time focusing on blogging versus other endeavors. I love how real you are. Keep up the good work!

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  23. oh shoot Avatar

    This is a wonderful post. last year i went through a point where I wanted to give up blogging and just move on, but blogging is part of me. I realized that I just needed a little break and a new blog look.

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  24. emily Avatar
    emily

    thanks for keeping it real (as always). 🙂

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  25. alexandra Avatar

    I honestly don’t think I could have enjoyed this post more!!
    You covered so many great points and your honesty is refreshing and liberating.
    Thanks so, so much for this.

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  26. Rebecca Kelsey Avatar

    This was very helpful and came at the exact right time for me. When I get in a rut, I’m in it really hard… if that makes sense. Thank you for the pep talk!
    Kindness is the best accessory,
    Rebecca

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  27. Alice Avatar

    I have always enjoyed the authenticity of your blog. I am trying to do the same with mine. Even though we don’t share all the same interests, I have enjoyed learning about different things (like running). Thanks for sharing this post. It helps me see that I don’t have to hold back about writing something that not everyone will get. I will write what feels true to me like you do.
    Thanks for the inspiration!
    Alice

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  28. alice Avatar

    Love everything you said ! You are inspiration ! I read a lot of blogs each days and if i don’t have time to do my daily reading, your blog is the one i check anyway !
    Thanks for your work ! And you totally inspire me with your challenge point ! I’ve already set some for this year (not bigs but achievable) and i’m sure i’ll set more !
    Thank you !

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  29. anka Avatar

    A really cool post and I enjoyed it a lot. And I think it will also help me, if I don’t get stuck somewhere between thinking of doing and actually doing.
    I loved that part about writing blog posts in your mind, I do that sometimes too.
    Thanks!

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  30. Christine N Avatar

    Thank you for this post. I enjoyed reading it and you made some very good points and observations. I’ve been blogging regularly for over four years and love it a lot.

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  31. Anne Marie Avatar

    I really needed this post! Thank you!

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  32. Nicole Avatar

    Awesome post Elise! I had to laugh at your comment about writing a blog post in your head about an event while it is happening. I’ve done that too! Facebook statuses and tweets too. It’s a hard habit to stop. 🙂

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  33. Nicola Avatar

    great advice and something to ponder over the next week. Thank you for your honesty 🙂

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  34. Bridey Avatar

    Thanks for sharing, especially the part about not having to settle on a narrow range of topics. It seems like most of the advice is to have a really clear idea on what few things you’re going to blog about, so it’s nice to hear a successful blogger with a completely different strategy!
    I’ve been blogging a few years and have never been able to decide on a particular focus – now I feel like I shouldn’t have to 🙂

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  35. Kiele Gregoire Avatar

    thank you for writing this post. i just discovered your blog today. and what a perfect and fitting first topic for me to read. i am 100% with you and know what you mean. it’s always beyond good to hear a fellow artist, self-employed, creative thinker (and fellow 26 year old!) validate the ebb and flow of inspiration. it’s definitely a challenge to master the art of ebb + flow but it looks like you’re doing a fantastic job and i can’t wait to follow your journey. thank you! keep it up! -kiele

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  36. marta Avatar

    just what i needed, elise. thank you for the inspiration. keep it rolling down the pipe. p.s. i NEVER think what you write is garbage. you are golden.

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  37. elise blaha Avatar

    Hi Bridey, Im glad this helps! To clarify a bit, I think having a clear voice as a blogger is very important. Who you are needs to come through. That said, any topic can be blog worthy.

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  38. Valerie Avatar

    I love the variety of your blog! Your authenticity really shows because no matter what random topic you are talking about, it is always done well. You don’t bounce around because you run out of things to talk about, you talk about what you are actually doing. And we all do that, so it is easy to relate!
    Also I love the point you made about challenging yourself to stay inspired. I am like you & need solid goals or I lose focus.
    Great post as always!

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  39. Stephenie Zamora Avatar

    Lovely post Elise, these are great tips. 🙂

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  40. Sarah Ann Noel Avatar

    I have been struggling with this SO, SO much.
    Neglecting projects I want to work on because I’m not “inspired” or some times because I’m too caught up in blogs and comparing mine to others.
    But just from reading this today, a chord was struck. I got off my butt today and did some writing and some ground work for a new project.
    THANK YOU!

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  41. Angie Avatar

    I love the ideas you express about no pressure to blog – really, it’s yours and you can do with it what you like. Who cares about everyone else. It’s an expression of you and in the future it will be like a diary or documentation for your grandchildren to see what their grandma was like, no? 😉 I for one am glad to see you check in so often though. That way we can see that you’re still hanging in there. I love your little bits of inspiration and the challenges that you set for yourself.

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  42. Lorna Avatar

    This rather long ramble was exactly what I needed to read today!

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    carol

    Love this post!

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  44. Melanie Avatar
    Melanie

    Great post Elise! I’m no blog expert, but I keep thinking of two words – web. log. And that’s exactly what you create…a web log of Elise – and we all love it.

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  45. eliza Avatar

    Thanks for this. I’m going to copy/paste it in my little book of inspiring pep talks. 🙂

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  46. Jaime Evans Avatar

    I totally agree with everything you’ve said here. I too get stagnant when I try to narrow the focus of my blog too closely. I love reading your blog because it is about a number of different things that manage to work together because they are delivered authentically. I think that is how you should describe your blog- not a craft blog or a personal blog: an authentic blog. : ) (or, you can just say lifestyle blog. That’s what I do now.)

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  47. Alyssa Avatar
    Alyssa

    that quote:
    “It’s easier to think outside the box when you are in a box. Weird, right?”
    is going on my wall.

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  48. Megan -Best of Fates Avatar

    Such great inspiration – I think I’m totally going to steal the setting goals idea! I just love all your little series and I think it would definitely help me actually get things done!

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  49. Mere Avatar

    Love this post Elise. As always you are such a thoughtful and inspiring voice.

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  50. Nicole Avatar

    I love this post. I struggle with inspiration constantly. Thanks for the advice!

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