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Wedwed

In life, I am a big believer in handmade and little details. It makes sense that in my wedding I would be even more obsessed. These save the dates took many steps and a few mis-steps but they finally came together just as I wanted. Hopefully they have all arrived at their destinations by now…

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The above image shows three envelopes and two save the dates. In the actual mailing there was only one of each but I wanted to share all sides at the same time. The gravel envelopes are from Paper Source. The small return labels are by Avery & the envelope liner is Snow & Graham. To line the envelopes, I used an envelope liner template and traced and cut. Paul would have been good at this part. He can help out when it comes time for the invites.

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I have spent the last two years selling lovely but conventional save the dates and wedding invitations and the truth is, after awhile, they all get boring. I wanted something different than the common "Copperplate small caps and Bickham Script" and decided on one simple font (Century) and my handwriting for key words : elise, paul and celebrate. I drew my words with a black pen on white paper, scanned them in and manipulated them in Photoshop Elements so they became images. The orange flowers were drawn by hand and then scanned in as well. Our save the date is double sided. One side I printed on cream Arturo paper on my home computer and the other I designed in Elements and then had printed in glossy finish by Vista Print. I mounted both pieces together back to back with a tape runner and then rounded the corners. They turned out nice and thick.

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The front of the envelope looked pretty naked in just gray so I drew the orange flowers on the front with an orange gelly roll. I am sure there is a fun stamp that would have served the same purpose, but it was important to me that the flowers "matched" on the outside and inside. The whole flower idea came about because I just loved that orange and gray Snow & Graham paper. They are perfectly IMPERFECT. I went through lots of bad ideas for how to address them but eventually just went with handwritten addresses in a black pen. Of course the king and queen stamps made an appearance.

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The back flap of the envelopes got a return address sticker that I printed at home with my parents address and our names. I realized sort of late that our last names are no where on the save the date but when you think about it, if you don't know who we are it's probably better you not come. At the last minute I stamped the date of our wedding on the back as well with a date stamp and black ink. It's probably my favorite detail.

So TA-DA! Our save the dates. The photos are a bit dull but in real life, the colors are fun. Next, I have to figure out how to pull off the invites.

A word or two on save the dates if YOU are planning a wedding… they are not completely necessary unless you have folks coming from out of town. And even then, an email or phone call can suffice. If you are mailing them out, however, shoot for about 8-6 months ahead. Always put the date and city location but don't worry about ceremony/reception time and venue. Include the words "invitation to follow" and your wedding web address if you have one. Obviously everyone who gets a save the date will get an invitation but not everyone who gets an invite needs a save the date. My venue has a hard occupancy rule and to be sure I don't go over that, I was very conservative with the number of save the dates that went out. It's much easier to invite more than it is to de-invite.

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39 responses to “wedding wednesday : save the dates.”

  1. leah eggers Avatar

    these are lovely! i agree with you – the date stamp is perfect. awesome job.

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  2. summer Avatar

    i am in awe. elise, the details are smashing. what a big job! but you are brave and bold and masterful when it comes to these things. and you totally mastered this.

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  3. cedwards Avatar
    cedwards

    so unconventional! I LOVE them!

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  4. Lizzy Avatar
    Lizzy

    I love them, they look great. I think you’re right when you say that handmade makes things so much more personal.

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  5. kim Avatar
    kim

    beautiful! i love the little touches and details. the idea to scan in the handwritten words and use them is also priceless!

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  6. Kelly Avatar

    lovely, very you 🙂
    xo
    kelly

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    christen

    i love them!

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  8. faye Avatar
    faye

    You need to do a mini workshop on Elements. Please!

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  9. lily Avatar
    lily

    wow! these are beautiful 🙂 makes me want to get married all over again…

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  10. marta Avatar

    beauuutiful.
    would expect no less from you.
    simply you and simply perfect.

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  11. Jill Avatar
    Jill

    they are fabulous, elise! love the hand-drawn flowers on the envelopes especially. great detail.

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  12. AesaLina Avatar

    I just love the personal touch.
    Beautiful, simply beautiful Elise!!

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  13. Amy Lapi Avatar

    so. you.
    so beautiful

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  14. sandra Avatar

    i love that they are totally not what you expect.

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  15. Charmaine Avatar

    love all the detail!

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  16. Christina Avatar

    These are so so so lovely!

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  17. Carola}i{ Avatar

    Absolutely lovely ❤

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  18. Nicole-Lynn Avatar
    Nicole-Lynn

    Great job! Loove them!

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  19. jen Avatar

    Wow – these are fabulous! Love ‘your’ personal touch on these.

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  20. ashley maureen Avatar

    this post got me so excited, as i am in the early stages of designing my save the dates. yours are so perfect + wonderful.

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  21. Lydia Avatar
    Lydia

    Love them…I noticed that you are getting married on my wedding anniversary! April 24, 1993!!

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  22. Melissa Gruber Avatar

    love all of the details. what a great job you did!

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  23. lanne Avatar

    These are perfect.. Thank you for sharing them!

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  24. Heather Avatar
    Heather

    Elise, These are absolutely amazing. Thank you so much for sharing your work. All of your ideas inspire me!

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  25. Abbie Avatar

    My goodness… I love everything about them! I am obsessed with lining envies. I think it’s my favorite part. We didn’t include our last names on the save-the-date, either… but I felt the same way about people knowing us anyway. I like all of the new unconvententional invites that are popping up nowadays… but then again, our wedding wasn’t too formal.

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  26. breanne Avatar

    those look amazing, elise!!

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  27. José (It's a Dutch Girlsname here in Holland) Avatar

    I always looking forward to the Wednesdays. I’m really wedding-obsessed (have to wait another 2,5 years before we are getting married. That’s when my boyfriend and I are 10 years together!)
    Save the date cards are not really common here in the Netherlands, but a tradition can be started here! LOL
    Love the cards, but the most beautiful thing are the envelopes!

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  28. kdarli Avatar

    They are stunning Elise … it’s so nice to see them be exactly what you want rather than just going with the regular and conventional designs. 🙂

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  29. Jennifer Brotchie Avatar

    those are beautiful!!

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  30. Jojo Avatar

    Totally loved the date stamp of your wedding date on the back…I totally noticed it and pointed it out to Matt. To which he said “oh yeah…cool” (boys…).
    See you Saturday…Game Day!!

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  31. Dee Avatar

    Elise these are just beautiful, classy and personal with a creative touch.

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  32. Leni Avatar

    Elise, you did such a fabulous job!!!

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  33. Rani Avatar

    holy cow! these are gorgeous!

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  34. wedding packages Avatar

    Great job so beautiful i like it so much. 🙂
    winnie

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  35. Jordan Avatar

    Really striking design. Love those colour combinations, and original drawings you’ve incorporated into your card. Top job! 🙂
    Jordan
    http://polkadotprintsstudio.blogspot.com/

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  36. jodi Avatar

    they look so great! and i love the idea of having a wedding website. yours looks terrific!

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  37. Fotograf Brasov Avatar

    Great save the date photo ideas. Keep them comming 🙂

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