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When that paper came to the store last week I was thrilled because up until then I had no paper plan. I had colors. And I had the fact that I don't want a big formal invitation. Last time I was home, I asked my parents what they thought about an invite that started with "Mr. and Mrs. …invite you to the marriage of…" and my dad looked at me like I was crazy. "How about, 'Come to our great big party'?" he asked. Which was my thought exactly.

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I am hooked on having a celebration. A celebration of love, and of family. The families that have raised us. Our families of friends. The small family that we will be starting together next April. We are the first of our close groups of friends to get married so in some ways we are starting a long chain of celebrations. The last thing I want is for it all to feel stuffy or cookie-cutter.

AND SO, for the paper plan (that's invites, save the dates, table cards, placecards, menus + programs) I am just going with things as I see them. Things that seem to achieve this strange wedding atmosphere I have created in my head. Sort of a strange way to pull it all together, but worst case, I'll end up with 150 extra orange envelopes. And obviously, you can never have enough of those.

In non-paper news, I tried on my wedding dress again yesterday. I had exchanged it for the same size but in a petite. I still love it. It looks the same but fits a little better and is shorter so I don't have to hold it up when I walk. I can't wait. Can't wait. We should just do a surprise wedding next weekend. We should, but we won't.

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15 responses to “july 22.”

  1. Lisa Avatar
    Lisa

    I love the idea that you want to have a celebration of love and family!!!!! It’s your day, do it the way you wish. You have so much style, I am sure it will be awesome.

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  2. Rani Avatar

    I love reading about your journey into your celebrations!!!! And because of you I am now addicted to paper and stationary and all things ink! I want to work for a paper store too!!!

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  3. mandie segura Avatar

    Yikes! Love your ‘letterhead’ or logo or whatever it is! 🙂 Have fun- it goes by quickly- even if you’re like me and thought it was the longest 16 mkonths of my life, it’s still too quick!

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  4. thursday Avatar

    Ok, I feel like getting married again so I can have a cool simple dress like that one.

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  5. Bluebelle Avatar

    I love all the stuff you said about families/weddings. You’re so right. We had a laid back wedding too, after deciding to get married, making it chilled out was the best decision! Enjoy!

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  6. Tori Avatar
    Tori

    I love your paper you’re using. Its so fun! And I like your approach to your wedding.

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  7. stefanie Avatar
    stefanie

    Hello,
    this is stefanie from singapore. i am new to your blog and i love it. especially how you create all your mini books and the way which you document almost everything.
    make me feel that i should pay more attention to the details in my life and documented it.
    good luck for your big day

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  8. Amy Tangerine Avatar

    LOVE the dress. and yes, totally agree with you on the orange envelopes.

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  9. Melanie K. Avatar
    Melanie K.

    I love the patterns! the orange flowers and the gray circles … you can never go wrong with what YOU like. Weddings SHOULD be about the bride and what the bride (and I guess, the groom, too) wants. Have fun!

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  10. Heather Avatar

    I love this. That’s what it is ALL about… a celebration of your love and your families. SO many brides forget that.
    xoxo

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  11. leah eggers Avatar

    oh man chris and i came so close to deciding on a “surprise wedding” last night. i know what you mean about not being able to wait.

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  12. Becca Avatar
    Becca

    Speaking of fun weddings… just saw this video tonight! It made my day and if I could do my wedding over again, I would totally do this… haha! 🙂
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4-94JhLEiN0&eurl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2Freader%2Fview%2F&feature=player_embedded

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  13. Tanya Gilmartin Avatar

    hey- check out this site for wedding and greeting card phrasing…. lots there to choose from… some are a little (ok, a lot) cheesy, but you can take bits and pieces from various phrasing…. check it out
    http://koproducts.cceasy.com/order/Verses_VerseChoices.cfm?vid=2676C9E692&rand=1551O5159X11048&strTop=CarlsonCraft_FrontNav.cfm

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  14. Leni Avatar

    Elise, you’re so cute!

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