enJOY it

an archived personal and craft blog from Elise Blaha Cripe.

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    photo from my maternity shoot with the fantastic Tara Whitney. More to come.

    Rounding the corner here. Still reasonably patient. The end of the pregnancy sort of reminds me of the end of high school or the the end of college. You wait about nine months (and many, many years in those cases) for the end to arrive. You talk about how exciting it will be when it's all over. You throw a party when you reach the "100 days" countdown. You take a bunch of tests and get bombarded with a lot of advice. Everyone reminds you to "Enjoy it because it goes soooooo fast!" You worry about getting through it. You wonder what's next. You're anxious for the end to come.

    And then…those final weeks actually arrive.

    And suddenly, your countdown feels odd. You realize you've really enjoyed this time.  You can't go back after this. You'll say good-bye and move forward forever. And even though you're thrilled, you're nostalgic.

    This is it. In the very best way. I am so happy that we're soon embarking on the next adventure. I cannot wait to meet this little one! My life is ready as it's going to get for a Big Change. But, with about two weeks left, I have to really appreciate this. Appreciate that my body is doing all the work. Appreciate that it's keeping my girl healthy and safe while my mind just gets to think about what we need from Target or what sort of bookcase would look good in the corner or how many things I have left on my to-do list. Soon she'll arrive and both my mind and body will go into overdrive, caring for this piece of my heart that now lives in the world.

    I can hardly wish this time away.

    I have a feeling she'll come after her due date. I think we'll get Paul home and then she'll enter our lives. I think with all the abnormalities we've experienced in this pregnancy, the end will be comically normal. I'll go into labor in the middle of the day at home. Paul will drive me to the hospital. They'll have lost my pre-registration paperwork. (Do they ever not lose it?) I'll deliver the baby. Paul will cut the cord. We'll all cry and become a family of three in the same room. Of course, I'm not married to this plan (how could I be?) but if I was venturing a guess, that's it.

    Paul, on the other hand, thinks she'll come early. Before he's home. I can imagine that – delivering her with my mom in the room and hopefully Paul on facetime – as well. The benefit there, the one I cling to, is that I'll be able to be actively present in the moment when he and baby girl meet for the first time. I'll be able to prepare for him to enter the room (or step off the airplane). I'll be able to open my eyes as wide as I can and take in the exact second he meets his daughter. I'll burn it into my heart and savor it forever.

    So yes, one way or another (and obviously, there are a million possible scenarios aside from the two above), the end is coming. The countdown is dwindling. We'll get there. We'll deal. "We'll deal." has become my motto. "I trust you, body. I trust you, baby." has become my mantra.

  • Here

    If you've been holding out, now is the day to shop! Below are some of my favorite photos from the past 13 months (stamps launched with just six designs in April 2012!) showing how I've used them.

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    I'll be closing first thing tomorrow (Thursday 5/30) morning when I wake up. 😉

  • what to eat with gestational diabetes

    I'm writing this post partly because I have gotten a few requests for specifics about my GD diet and what my meals look like. But I am also writing it in the hopes that six months from now, a stressed out pregnant woman will perform a google search for GD meal recommendations and wind up here and read this :

    "It's okay. You'll be fine."

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    I have found that in the scheme of things, gestational diabetes, while annoying, is no big deal. Best case, I change my diet, eat healthy, exercise, gain an appropriate amount of weight & maintain correct blood sugar levels. Worst case, I am unable to manage my blood sugar with diet and exercise & need to take medication. But here's the thing, as long as it's properly managed, I should be blessed with a healthy baby. There can be complications of course. But there can always complications. This is birth. This is life.

    Once I embraced that, this whole thing became easier.

    Some things I have learned from experience over the past ten weeks :

    • eating vegetables (especially green ones!) with meals helps keep my blood sugar down
    • most fruits are out aside from berries
    • walks after meals help keep numbers low
    • strenuous exercise can make numbers higher
    • stress plays a HUGE factor in blood sugar levels
    • a glass of milk or a small bit of carbohydrates right before bed can help my body regulate sugars overnight

    Part of this diet is writing down everything I eat and taking my blood sugar four times a day (through finger sticks). I am totally a creature of habit so once I figured out what meals worked, I pretty much just rotated through them over and over. It's been almost a blessing that Paul is gone because no one is here to get tired of the same six meals.

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    BREAKFAST : nut granola with milk. Or nut granola mixed with full-fat greek yogurt.

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    MORNING SNACK : berries and natural peanut butter. (Not the Skippy peanut butter that says "natural" on the front of the label, but the real stuff that is made with just peanuts and salt.) I also eat almond butter often. Or if I am going to be out and about, a handful of almonds and a bit of cheese. Or if I want something savory, a scoop of cottage cheese with season salt and pepper.

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    LUNCH : a grilled cheese sandwich with turkey (from the deli not a package that lasts six months). Sometimes I'll add avocado and other times, I spread on a healthy dose of homemade asparagus pesto (which lately, I've been making heavy on the asperagus, low on the basil). I have been using whole wheat sandwich thins that have 22g of carbohydrates. I grill the sandwich open faced in the oven at 400*F for just a few minutes until the meat is hot and the cheese is melted.

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    The side is usually strawberries, raw red bell pepper (red bell pepper has more vitamin C than an orange, but way less sugar) or a caprese salad.

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    AFTERNOON SNACK : usually something like what I had for the morning snack, but not the exact same. I love these almond "cookies" too. TIP: they are even better with crunchy almond butter. Sometimes I'll spread a bit of peanut butter on them if I'm feeling really hungry.

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    DINNER : a bit more variation. I've made chicken quesadillas (with rotisserie chicken or deli meat) quite often. I use whole wheat, preservative free tortillas from Trader Joe's and they cook up really well. I'll put avocado right on top or spread on some asparagus pesto (sounds odd, but it's super good). For sides with the quesadilla, I'll either have a ton of red bell pepper, this broccoli slaw, this brussel sprout salad or an artichoke. (We steam them and then eat the "meat" off the leaves with a bit of mayo and balsamic vinegar.)

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    I often scramble eggs and eat them with or without a tortilla. I've had more than a few caprese salads. I also eat lots of spinach salads with whatever berries or veggies I have in the fridge. I always make sure to throw some meat in there (heated deli meat or chicken). Sometimes I'll just cut a ton of cooked chicken, red bell pepper and cucumber and eat all that dipped in asparagus pesto.

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    EVENING SNACK : usually is greek yogurt, a bit of honey and berries. Sometimes it's peanut butter and half a serving (about 11g of carbs) of crackers. If I am feeling hungry before bed I'll drink a cup of milk.

    Seriously…this is it. This is what I have eaten for about 10 weeks. 🙂 There are so many other things that work on this diet and many of the paleo recipes that you can find on Pinterest are awesome. But, like I said, I am a creature of habit. I also am very pro REAL FOOD – you can read more about that here – so I didn't just want to load up on "sugar-free!" snacks when I got this diagnosis.

    When I go out to dinner or lunch, I order some sort of meat and always substitute extra veggies for potatoes or whatever they come with. I have just a few bites of dessert if we order it. I love burgers, but order them piled with stuff (tomatoes, lettuce, onions, etc) and then don't eat the top of the bun and only eat a few fries. Dining out for breakfast is super easy…eggs dishes are in…toast and pancakes are out. No juice. I drink only milk, water, coffee (1 cup caffeinated in the mornings, sometimes a decaf iced latte in the afternoons) & caffeine-free tea.

    Once this little one arrives, my body should return to normal and be back to regulating sugar just fine on it's own. (I will have another glucose test about six weeks after her birth to confirm this.) I am excited about french toast. I am looking forward to a cup of gelato. I can't wait to make nachos on occasion with Paul. But overall, I know I'll stick with many of the habits established from this diet because I feel really good. My mood has improved. I sleep well. I never get headaches. My midwives are happy with my weight gain. I feel full and alert and active. I can't imagine not wanting those feelings to continue. Especially over a plate of pasta. 😉

    *Please note, I am not a doctor or dietitian and what worked for my body may not work for yours. Hopefully this is a good jumping off point for your own GD diet or healthy eating plan.

    Update from April 2016! hi Mamas with GD! It's been three years since I wrote this post. In June 2013 I delivered a 7lb9oz baby girl and I now have a very healthy almost three year old AND a 5.5 month old. I ended up NOT having GD with my second pregnancy and I attribute it to all the walking I added to my daily routine. I got a Fitbit and started hitting 10k steps a day regularly. (You can read about that here.) Again, I am not a doctor, but I think the added activity level is why I had no blood sugar issues the second time around. My second daughter was born at 40w2d and weighed 7lbs7oz despite the fact that I didn't follow a special diet and just ate normally. 🙂

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  • Mainspace

    The big room.

    Also known as our TV room. Also known as the fireplace room. Also known as the room that I hope Paul can figure out how to work the fireplace in. Also known as a super large space that needs more furniture somewhere down the line.

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    I've shared bits of this space already. This is the room that came together in a HUGE way when the media cabinet was built. I mentioned in that post that the media cabinet really elevated the space for me.

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    When our stuff got delivered, one of the first things off the truck was the big black bookshelf we had used as a room divider in our old townhouse. (You can see a peek of what it looked like for the few months I had it above.) I told the movers to just drop it into place right at the start of this room so when you walked in the front door, the first thing you saw was the bookshelf. The mover's looked at me with relief and did just that.

    And then the rest of the furniture was settled around that decision.

    I really tried to make it work. I decided to fill it a bit lighter than I had in Oxnard. I stuck with mostly greens and blacks and whites, taking care to have space where the light could shine through. It worked. Sorta. Until the media cabinet was built. And I loved the super clean look. My bookshelf looked cluttered and totally wrong in comparison.

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    Orange & Park California print, pinwheel painting, ampersand string art, Paris print, siiso print. frames by ikea, target & pottery barn.

    And then I hung art around the TV. And I loved that even more. And suddenly the bookshelf was an eye-sore that was always in my peripheral vision while I was watching TV. But of course, blessing in disguise, I was pregnant and without help, so I couldn't do anything about it for a month. I had to really think on it and be sure I hated it enough to justify moving it.

    Sure enough, I did.

    When my family was here, they kindly disassembled it and transported it into my office where there is now plenty of storage for all my random shipping and craft supplies. (I'll be sharing the office once the baby is born and Paul is home and I have figured out how it's going to work for us.)

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    TA-DA! Suddenly this room could really breathe. It's bigger and brighter now.

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    I'm still thrown off when I turn the corner from the hallway and look out into the whole space each morning. I've got plans to fill it in… I'm thinking about a long but low bookshelf (maybe with a raw wood top?) that defines the space a little more to go behind the chair. NO rush though, I am more than happy to let some ideas percolate for awhile.

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    The rest of this room is pretty simple. The canvases were all painted by me this spring to bring some color in. The rug, coffee table and couch we had in Oxnard. (The rug was my parents, purchased in the 1980s). Paul and I made the coffee table a few years ago and the couch is West Elm. The lamp is this one from Target (reviews are not great, but I am totally happy with it).

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    That chair was a craigslist find from the first week I moved in. It was not the best deal in the world ($280) but it's real wood, real leather and insanely gorgeous. Plus, I'd never seen anything like it which is something I like in my used item hunting.

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    In the front corner of the room is another empty space that we're still thinking on. My dream plan at the moment is a hanging chair (inspired by Elsie) and a bookshelf and maybe a fun rug. I want to get that mirror and art (both craigslist finds) hung up too. And plants, of course. "Put a plant on it" is this home's motto.

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    The entryway also needs work. I ended up leaving the mirrored table there temporarily because even though it's not quite right for this house, I need a spot to drop my stuff. We are going to build a wooden bench. Something simple and fun for resting a diaper bag and a bowl with keys, etc. There will be art hung on both entry walls. There might be a coat rack. Oh and the rug… there will be a rug that is not the black doormat that came with the house.

    But all in good time. Right now, this space is complete. It's whole. It's ready for a family of three to move in and sprawl out and enjoy. (Hurry home, Paul. Sit tight, baby girl.)

  • Plwk20

    It's week twenty and I love this project.

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    click the photos to enlarge for a somewhat clearer image.

    Week of : May 13 – May 19.

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    What happened this week? I was home again. I decided to take another approach instead of just another "collection of photos and stuff from the week" and make this spread all about my mornings, inspired by the post I wrote that week.

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    Anything special in the spread? Yes, it's totally morning focused. I didn't use any 3×4 photos and instead played around with 3×4 journaling cards and creating some of my own little embellishment cards.

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    I also decided to add a 5×7 insert to share one extra photo (of my decaf latte at a local coffee shop) and some extra notes about what happened aside from the morning photos this week.

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    Techniques this week : My favorite card was made by cutting up a manilla tabbed card (I just trimmed it to 3×4 and kept the tab) and then stamped on top of the tab with yellow staz-on and a hello stamp from Whitney Rae Paper. The journaling on top is taken from that morning blog post.

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    Overall thoughts : Fun to change things up a bit. Especially now when the weeks are all blending together a bit. This project is a marathon, not a sprint and just like a marathon, you have to come up with ways to stay inspired and keep your mind moving forward.

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    Ratio of iPhone photos to "real camera" photos : 3 to 5. (and yep, my printer ran out of ink while printing that MOM latte photo. But life is short and photo paper is expensive so I went with it anyway.)

    Ratio of photos taken by Elise to photos taken by Paul : Again, all Elise.

    Supplies used : Seafoam core kit, Elise Joy magic, this & house stamps, Paislee Press morning card & love heart card, Whitney Rae Paper Hello stamp, Kelly Purkey PL kit (wooden card), Kelly Purkey "rise & shine" sticker, Chic Tags heart tag embellishment.

    Tools used : Design A pocket pages, 5×7 pocket page, Fiskars corner rounder, Zig Millenium pen, Rotatrim paper trimmer, Office Depot date stamp, staz-on ink. All photos were printed at home on my HP Photosmart 2575 printer on Office Depot semi-gloss photo paper.

    Project Life is a memory-keeping system created by Becky Higgins. I use photos, text and stuff to document our life weekly. You can see all the posts from 2012 here and 2013 here. Do you have a question about how I am tackling this project (including anything about the photos)? Check here.

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    First, thank you so much for your kind words about the house photos I shared this week. I really LOVED pulling the spaces together this spring but anticipate the real fun to come when we actually just live in the space this summer. Super rewarding and fun to be able to share full photos. I will have a bit more next week, including the main area and baby girl's nursery.

    That last photo shares the progress that my dad and brother made in the backyard over the weekend. The cement wall was starting to fall apart as tree roots pushed it out (you can clearly see the zig-zag here). They took out the bricks and re-cemented them together. SO rad. It was step 1 of the nearly 400 steps we have planned for making this backyard fantastic over the next four years. (Step 2 is getting the grass to grow back.)

    This week was busy for me work-wise and I expect it to carry on into the weekend and throughout the end of the month. I am working on posts for the blog. I am developing content for a new workshop with Big Picture (more info on that later this summer). I am prepping for a minor blog re-design and then the shop closure next Wednesday (get your orders in!). Everything needs to be wrapped up so I can enjoy a real break as we wait for and then celebrate the little lady soon to be joining our family.

    Yes, yes. Closing things down. Tying bows on projects. Enjoying the calm before the circus. Cruising into the weekend with the windows open. Good stuff.

  • Diningarea

    When I first saw the house in early February, I didn't fully appreciate the awesome that was the dining area. And by awesome, I mean challenging. As mentioned, a few walls were knocked down during our house's flip and the one that separated the kitchen from a little living room by the window was one of them.

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    The bar from the kitchen was added (which is cool – I really like that aspect) but it meant that the space now was a bit too small to have a kitchen table AND an extra sitting area but it was too big to make sense with a small dining table. After we closed on the house and my mom and I came down to look at it, I realized this space was crying out for a big, substantial wooden table. Something completely different than the expandable light wood table we'd been using and Paul had had for the past 6 years. (I ended up selling the table and green chairs on craigslist this past weekend just as we got this new stuff set up.)

    And so began my dining table hunt. Again, I considered everything. Vintage tables. Craigslist tables. Crate & Barrel tables. Target tables. Ikea tables. Pier 1 tables. Overstock.com tables. Pottery Barn tables. Restoration Hardware tables. Insanely gorgeous $5000 dining tables from a boutique in Little Italy (okay so those weren't so much considered, as drooled on). I emailed local carpenters. I scoured Etsy. I went around and around and around.

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    My requirements were simple-ish. It had to be at least 80 inches long but not longer than 96. It couldn't be wider than 40 inches and I really wanted something about 36. I didn't want it to be expandable. It had to look big and important. But it couldn't be too fussy. It had to be dark. AND OH MAN, DID IT HAVE TO BE REAL WOOD.

    For a hot minute this spring, my dad and I were going to build one. We had plans. We called local wood distributors. My dad talked to his carpenter brother. But what we realized was that due to the size we were looking for and the thickness of the tabletop we hoped to achieve, this was going to be a long (a.k.a not completed in a weekend) and expensive project. We pulled the plug and decided to focus on a few different projects instead for my parent's last trip down before the baby came. And I realized that these insanely expensive new tables were a little more worth it. I think I had to break down the DIY cost in order to see that.

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    So after that, we were ready to go with this gorgeous table from CB2. We had a 10% off coupon. They were offering a free delivery deal. It was as cheap as we were going to get it. But the morning I was ready to buy, I got an email from World Market with a 25% off coupon. Just one more look at their tables, I thought to myself. And ta-da…there she was! THE TABLE. Dark wood. Good sized. A bit smaller than I thought I wanted, but substantial. More detail on the legs than I thought I wanted, but maybe that would help balance out my minimalist-ish style. And with 25% off, a deal compared to what we had budgeted.

    I sent Paul a link and drove to the store to take photos. We both agreed it looked better "in real life" than online. Boom. Ordered. (And once again, proof that when it's really right, I go for it, no hemming and hawing.)

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    Once we scored on the table, the chair plan came together in about a day. I sent Paul a bunch of pinterest links to light chairs with dark wood tables and black chairs with dark wood tables and we agreed on black. We liked the look more and black chairs matched the black stools at the bar (from Ikea and kindly left by the sellers for us). I found the chairs on overstock.com originally, but then found them even cheaper here (the day I bought them they were $119 for 2.) I don't know that they'll last us our whole lives and they are certainly not family heirlooms, but they look good, were easy to assemble (even nine months pregnant), are sturdy enough and are surprisingly comfy. They work well with the table and to me, tie it all together. We went with six to start but may grab two more (this table comfortably fits eight).

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    Long before there was a table and chairs, we had the bent wood pendant lamp (I cannot believe they are no longer online!!) hung. I was not a fan of the chandelier that came with the house, (plus it was positioned totally wrong) and so my dad installed the pendant lamp and we used a chain and hook to get it centered in the room without having to mess with wiring. It's huge – 2 feet wide – and helps the space feel like one area and not two small areas spliced together. I like that the light wood plays off the dark beams above and the dark table, rug and chairs below.

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    I found the rug at a vintage shop the first week I moved in. It's graphic and old (the guy who sold it to me thought it was made in Japan in the 1960s, but who knows?) and big. I bought it because it was a killer price for the size and I'd never seen anything like it.

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    The ampersand was found on clearance at World Market. Total impulse buy, but something I would have regretted everyday of my life if I let it go. It was covered in an old map and I painted it with black chalkboard paint (though haven't got up the courage to actually chalk anything on it yet). There were a lot of fans of the map on Instagram, and I get that, but maps are not my decorating style right now and it's not like this was a handmade or vintage piece, so I felt great about painting over it.

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    The blue ceramic candle sticks were picked up at a house this past weekend when I went to go get a mirror from craigslist. The lady had almost a little garage sale set up outside and she sold them to me for $3. Total deal. I love them. The white bowl was picked up at our farmer's market, right before we left Oxnard.

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    As this low-budget sketch demonstrates, I have additional plans for this space. I'm going to stick an indoor tree (hopefully a fiddle leaf fig which I am hoping to track down on craigslist) in the right corner into that basket I found at goodwill. I am going to have photos from our upcoming family shoot with Tara Whitney blown up huge and framed for behind the table and next to the ampersand. And of course, we are going to gather around this table for Thanksgivings, Christmas Eves and most importantly, family dinners every night. (No more eating in front of the TV for Elise & Paul.)

    Thanks for letting me share, in perhaps WAY too much detail, how this space came together.

  • Maycurrently

    celebrating 37 weeks of baby carrying.

    clearly rocking a tabletop.

    feeling relief at hitting such a monumental week.

    wishing my mom a very happy 60th birthday today.

    waking up earlier than ever.

    sleeping well through the night.

    having a love affair with my robot vacuum.

    seriously obsessed with how much dust that thing picks up.

    eating tiny backyard tomatoes that taste like candy.

    drinking raspberry leaf iced tea.

    enjoying quiet evenings with the windows open.

    loving the living space now that it's "finished."

    still going to bar method, but…

    skipping out before the ab work at the end.

    washing tiny baby clothes.

    folding soft swaddling blankets and oodles of burp cloths.

    setting up her bassinet in our bedroom.

    video-chatting with Paul three times a day.

    so appreciating our extra connection this deployment.

    waiting until Paul's home to watch the next installment of Arrested Development with him.

    thinking this qualifies me for some sort of Wife of the Year award.

    wrapping up projects.

    looking forward to a break to recharge creatively.

    wondering what my little lady will look like.

    practicing mindfulness.

    truly enjoying today and this moment.

  • I had this post planned and ready to go, but it feels incredibly trivial today to share a corner of my house when so many in Oklahoma and surrounding states just lost everything to devastating tornadoes. Sending prayers & aid. If you'd like to help, donations can be made through redcross.org or send $10 quickly by texting REDCROSS to 90999.

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    This little nook is sort of a random spot. When our house was flipped, they knocked out a bunch of walls and created a very open floor plan. Overall, I'm a huge fan, but figuring out exactly how to map out our furniture was a little tricky at first.

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    We decided to turn this space into a "breakfast nook." Which means absolutely nothing except for the fact that this is where I sit and enjoy my breakfast and coffee every morning. Before we had the blue chair, I sat on our white leather couch (which was sold because it was WAY too big and way too white for the space). When the couch was gone, I sat on the rug.

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    Because of the windows, this area just asks you to come sit and enjoy the morning.

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    One of the first things we did here was add the plant stand. (I blogged about that in detail here.) I still LOVE it. It was actually one of the first "new" things created for this house and it's still one of my favorite projects of the last 85 days. It sticks to the theme you see all over this house – simple, real wood, green. My goal everywhere is to bring in textures and wood and plants and this area is no exception.

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    After the plant stand, the space sat "in-progress" for awhile. Months actually. Then when Paul's family visited, they generously helped us furnish the space as a house warming gift. We picked up the two chairs and low profile round coffee table at West Elm. (Tip for West Elm : they offer a 10% military discount! Tip for furniture stores in general : ask about floor models! The round table was not a floor model, but it was not in a box and so we saved 20%)

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    I love the chairs. I love that they coordinate without being the same at all. The pillows were both DIY. The striped is from totally random fabric and the heart pillow turorial is here. I entertained every idea under the sun for seating in this space. A smaller couch. A loveseat. Lots and lots of vintage and craigslist pieces. A daybed. Matching chairs. Chairs that didn't match in shape but matched in color. Chairs that matched in shape but not in color. In the end, after a million mind changes, these were the winners. The blue one is mine and the tan one is Paul's, but if you're ever visiting, please sit anywhere.

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    The coffee table is perfect too. It's low. Obviously. Too low if you use the space all the time and need a super functioning coffee table to work on or eat on or something. But really rad if you don't want to block a window and just want to set stuff down. I love that it's round so baby girl will not crash into a corner (we've got enough corners in the house to baby proof) and obviously, I love that it's neutral and wood.

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    The ottoman I found a few weeks later at Home Goods and knew it would be perfect next to the coffee table. It gives the room an extra level of height. The circles and colors don't compete but of course don't match either. It's the perfect height for me and my chair. The rug is a few years old and from Crate & Barrel. Love the black and white and love the circles on the stripes. I have almost the exact same rug in the baby's room, but it's twice the size and was half the cost (found at Home Goods).

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    The final touch on this room came Saturday when my dad installed the shelf. This shelf was my "icing on the cake" dream and what I knew this space needed to ground the big script art (still my favorite) and complete the room. I bought wood (I think pine) at Home Depot that was 11.25 inches wide and had it cut down to 87.5 inches in length. We brought it home and it slipped like a glove into the space between the fireplace brick and the window wall which was a huge relief. It had to be perfect, I wanted this shelf to look built in, not awkwardly floating a few inches from the walls.

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    We stained it and mounted it into studs on brackets from Ikea. I left the brackets their natural wood color mostly for ease but also to just give some contrast. The height was determined by me sitting in my chair and reaching my arm out to see where I'd want to set my coffee cup. So I guess it's "custom" fit. 😉

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    The fun part, of course, was styling the shelf and adding our favorite little knick-knacks that were all out in full force at the townhouse. Plants, obviously. And some art. That painting of Paul and I was done by my 85-year-old Grandpa. That's my favorite wedding photo. The Picasso print was an anniversary gift from Paul. The lightbulb is something Paul made in ceramics class in high school. The jar of rocks and bowl of shells were collected by me on our beach in Oxnard.

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    Yes. This is my favorite spot already. It's got my view, my plants and so many of my treasured items. But then I remember that this spot is just beginning to be lived in. This space will offer our family so much. I think about slow breakfasts & coffee here on Paul's days off. I think about sitting in my blue chair and nursing the little one. I think about her pulling herself up and taking her first steps across the striped rug. Oh man, I love.

    random product sources not mentioned above : woven wall hanging, frames from Target & Aaron brothers, coasters from Anthropologie, letter C from Urban Outfitters, I made that "best is yet to come" art and had it printed at Office Depot.

  • 84days

    This house became ours officially 84 days ago. We had fallen in love with it about 32 days before that, after seeing photos on our relator's listing site. The house was stunningly beautiful while empty with it's open floor plan, wood ceilings and Benjamin Moore Athena paint on all the walls. I was so convinced this place was exactly right for us and could hardly believe it when I got the keys and walked around taking photos for that first tour.

    Two days after we closed, our furniture arrived. All the stuff we'd owned at our townhouse was brought in and dropped into place. My heart sunk a tiny bit as I realized the magic that existed while the space was empty was a bit dulled with all this furniture (much of it still left over from Paul's bachelor days!) that didn't work. What I loved in the townhouse wasn't going to click here.

    Which totally makes sense. This house has a completely different layout and vibe plus a surprising number of "challenge" areas that needed to be thoughtfully pulled together. I spent the last 82 days ruminating on these challenges, pinning images that represented the "vision" in my head, drawing up plans for stuff my dad could build and combining websites and craigslist for the right furniture at the right price.

    I was ruthless with what had to go. And incredibly picky about what was allowed in. I was also limited quite a bit, considering I was alone (so not able to go visit random finds on craigslist) and pregnant (not able to move anything heavy). But I think that was a blessing in disguise. I had to really take my time and plan, then pack crazy big and small projects, deliveries and pick-ups (I sold a bunch of our own stuff on craigslist) into the five weekends when I was blessed to have help from our visiting families.

    My goal for the house was to get it from level one (the bones of the space) to level two (the first layer of rad furniture, plants and art) before June when the baby arrived and Paul was scheduled to come home and see our house for the first time in real life. (Level three – the tweaking and the enhancing and the fulling living in will come later.) I knew it needed to get to that same magic spot it had started at so when I was focusing on just being with our little one, I was surrounded by either things I loved or empty space with room to dream up new plans.

    And I am so excited and thrilled that after this weekend, I am there. We're good. As I told Paul, "I have feathered our nest." It's not perfect. The office is going to need help once Paul's home and I figure out what work will look like for me + baby. The bedroom still needs a new dresser and ideally an external sliding door to close off the bath. I have some huge photo printing projects planned. Nearly every room needs more lamp light (thank goodness we're heading into summer!). And there are empty spaces still in the main area (which I will share more about later in the week) that would so benefit from some DIY furniture projects (cool ones!). But we're there. I mean, we're here. We're home.

    It's a good feeling. It's been a wild 84 days. A challenging 84 days. A wonderful 84 days. Insane thank you's are in order to both of our families. And to Paul, for responding with interest to what must have been 500 emails of screenshots, craigslist finds and product links. Love you, babe. Cannot wait to have you home. It will not feel completely whole until you walk through the door.

    p.s. look for main space room tours and details soon! (with less blown out photos, I promise.) also… if you're bored or missed it here's our home buying story.