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I spent last weekend up in Portland for another World Domination Summit. I was there to take a bit of a break and recharge and listen to other people tell their stories. It was inspirational on many levels and I left not ready to “take over the world” but instead to “do better tending to my small corner of the world.”

Here are some of my favorite take away points:

Bravery feels like you’re going to throw up. One of my favorite speakers of the weekend was Jon Acuff. I appreciated his humor, his honesty about his flaws and connected well with his message. Probably my favorite line was about how we think of bravery as this bold and ambitious feeling but really, in the moment, “being brave sucks.” In the moment, you’d do anything to NOT do what you’re going to do. If it was possible you’d turn your back and run away. But you can’t. You’re committed or it’s out of your control and so bravery is about taking the leap ANYWAY. It’s only after that we think of what we did as “brave.” In real time we think of it as terrible.

We can do hard things. I sobbed my way through Jeremy Cowart’s entire presentation (honestly though, I don’t think there was a dry eye in the audience). Surprisingly, WDS was the first I had heard of Jeremy and his talents and I was blown away. Jeremy talked about being diagnosed with severe learning disabilities as a child, then finding art – first paint, then Photoshop and finally photography – and turning it into a career (a crazy, successful, world-changing career). Growing up he was told over and over again bible verse Phil 4:13 “I can do all things through God who strengthens me.” It became his mantra when things were hard. It continues to be his mantra when things are hard.

And things can be hard. Hard things happen. Earth shattering, senseless things happen. And from Megan Devine learned the value of bearing witness without trying to “fix” a problem. Some problems cannot be fixed.  Grief can go on forever. It’s really difficult to accept this – we don’t (or I certainly don’t) want to accept this. But to truly support one another, we must. The rawness of Megan and her story cracked my heart and reminded me again of the difference between real problems and fake problems.

Let go. This take-away was a reflection from many of the speakers and also from the book I was reading over the weekend, Essentialism (more on that later). “Be willing to course correct” said Asha Dornfest. “Stop trying to be a superhero” said Lewis Howes. “Don’t let negativity drain your energy” said Vani Hari. Over and over we heard about letting go and how freeing and powerful that can be.

A year is a really long time. Last year, I sat in the theater Sunday afternoon and wondered what the hell I was going to do next career-wise. MAKE29 was almost half over and I had no plan. Not even an inkling of a plan. This year, I have a new business that I believe in and want to spend every day working on. A year is a really long time. A year makes you wonder what’s really possible.

And then after WDS, you realize everything is.

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18 responses to “my WDS 2015 takeaways.”

  1. Leah Noble Avatar

    Love, love, love. 🙂
    (That’s what all my comments should be.)
    I saw you post about Essentialism and curious, went to look it up. Mind = BLOWN. I spent twenty minutes reading blog posts by Greg and downloaded the first chapter of the book. I can’t wait to see what you have to say about it!
    Thanks, as always, for being you and inspiring me so much.

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  2. susan black Avatar

    Fantastic post !! Thanks for all these wonderful people & their links

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  3. Kerrie Avatar

    I love Megan Devine. She has been one of the singularly most helpful person to me throughout my grief and I’ve never even met her.
    I’m excited to look up some of these other people too!

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  4. Anna Avatar

    Oh man, so much that resonates here. I LOVE “bravery feels like you’re going to throw up” and “in real time we think of it as terrible.” Just a couple weeks ago, I screwed up my courage to take the first step towards getting a promotion – and yep, that whole week my life felt nightmarish (totally dramatic but it’s what I was thinking at the time) and I felt vaguely nauseous.
    And thank you for the link to Megan Devine. Without going into too much detail here, I had an experience very similar to hers. Her work looks like an incredible resource.
    Thanks so much for sharing, Elise!

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  5. Tanya Avatar

    Ahhh, just reading this gave me goosebumps. Thanks so much for sharing. It was just what I needed to hear.

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  6. Maggie Avatar
    Maggie

    What a cool post

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  7. Kate Avatar

    Thanks so much for sharing your takeaways & all the great resources! Sounds like you got a ton out of the event. I hope to be able to go someday soon.

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  8. Jamie Walton Avatar

    I can’t tell you how much I needed to read your first takeaway. “Bravery feels like you’re going to throw up.” Seriously. I am trying lots of new, big, scary, wonderful, awful things this year, and most of the time I feel like I am going to throw up. So much that I keep wondering if I can actually do this. But if Jon Acuff feels like he’s going to throw up too, then I guess I can handle it. So nice to know you’re not alone. Thanks for sharing, Elise!

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  9. megan Avatar

    thanks, love. Glad it resonated with you.

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  10. Kellee Avatar
    Kellee

    I read your blog every day and I never post to say how much your words and perspective lift me up. Thanks for being awesome

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  11. kate Avatar
    kate

    This is the first time I have commented and I realized how silly (sad) it was to never take the time to say how much I appreciate this space and all your hard work. I have a morning routine. You are a part of that morning routine. I absolutely love reading your thoughts and words every day. Even if the days topic is one I really don’t have much interest in (me and knitting have yet to form a friendship 🙂 ), your writing is so smooth, thought provoking and uplifting that I can’t help but read and enjoy every last word. Thank You for being so genuinely you, and a wonderful part to my days.

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  12. JC Avatar

    These all sound like amazing and totally inspiring speeches. I can’t wait to see the videos.It always amazes me how you are able to bring the excitment out of me with your writing!

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  13. Anne Linn Avatar
    Anne Linn

    Thank you. Again and again.

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  14. Kristina B Avatar

    I would love to see Jon Acuff speak. It makes me swell with pride when anyone gushes about him. He is from one of my hometowns and his dad was my pastor when I was a teen and is still one of the most impactful pastors I’ve ever had. I don’t know him per se but I kinda do and love to brag about it HAHA

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  15. Littleminx.wordpress.com Avatar

    gosh this is just so inspiring! You continue to give so much food for thought as you constantly stretch to better your life, and share it with us. Thank you for continuing to share your story x

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  16. Ashley Brimeyer Avatar

    AMEN to Jon Acuff’s take-away. Holy cow, hit me in the gut. Especially facing life transitions of moving away from my hometown and leaving the teaching profession to pursue being a web developer. Most of the time I feel absolutely sick to my stomach, but it’s knowing that being brave sucks that reminds me that it’s going to be worth it.

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  17. Janelle Avatar

    Perfect closing line 🙂
    Jon Acuff was my favorite speaker too!
    By the way, I was totally hoping to meet you but didn’t see you except once, from across the street, which would’ve been super awkward of me to run over just to catch you.
    It must’ve been nice to sit back and enjoy the speakers this year when you didn’t have to fret about your own talk (which I now appreciate even more after attending WDS for the first time! I see all the hard work you put into it and love that you made it interactive, relevant, and put your humor into it).

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  18. EEwing390 Avatar

    Oh my gosh! I wish I had known that you were at WDS, I have your workbook and it was with me on my trip! I wasn’t taking it into the theater (it stayed at my host’s home) but I did use it all week. Totally would have LOVED to have met you. Maybe next year if I make it back to Portland? 🙂

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