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learning to love the middle

This week's podcast episode talks about "finding joy in the process." My guest is Astrid, a quilter who decided to make 20 different quilts this year. I found Astrid while falling down the Instagram rabbit hole. (You know the how it goes. I'm just thankful that at the bottom of this hole were gorgeous quilts instead of 16 year old cheerleaders.) I was instantly inspired by Astrid's photos and after our talk last week I was an even bigger fan.

Today I wanted to share a few concrete things that I do to help me get through the middle of a project. It's no secret that I love starting something new. (And my highlighters know just how much I love to cross something off my list.) But, of course, the real bulk of the work happens in between the start and the finish lines.

Make tweaks to your process. Blogging is my number one daily hobby and it's ultimately just words and photos. I love words and photos. But I HATE writing first drafts and I HATE resizing photos. Both steps I used to dread and I found that I had to really work myself up for them. This past year, I have instituted two things that have really helped. First, I have started to dictate some of my longer posts to my phone. Then I email the text to myself and copy and paste it into my post. It generally takes a decent amount of editing time but I find it so much easier to fine-tune a first draft than to fill a blank space. Second, I found the cheat to re-sizing multiple photos at the same time. It's saving me time and energy and making this whole process that much more enjoyable. Sometimes enjoying the process is about finding ways to work around the process.

learning to love the middle

Break down the middle into small beginnings and endings. Astrid talked about this and she completely nailed it. I find myself breaking up huge projects into smaller pieces all the time. Cleaning the kitchen, for example, can become 15 smaller and less daunting tasks (take out the trash, clear the sink, empty the dishwasher, wipe down the counters, clear out the fridge, dust the top shelf, mop the floor, etc.) You don't have to actually write down all the tasks but thinking about them as separate things somehow makes them less overwhelming. With MAKE29, I don't focus on the big picture – launch 12 different projects each month – I think of them as a single month at a time, with a million different little projects going into completing each month (those I write down).

Set a deadline. A time frame is a huge motivator. I love what Astrid mentioned – that a year seems like just enough time. You have some flexibility with a year. You can start. You can stop. You can think things through. You can try something new. You can switch gears. You can regroup. A year is a really long time but it's also definitive. It gives you boundaries and I think boundaries are oddly motivating.

learning to love the middle

Document your progress. This is probably my single greatest tool in staying inspired during the middle. I love to document what I'm doing through photos or check boxes or cross outs or those big thermometers that measure progress towards a goal. Having a visual representation of where I've come from and where I'm headed is incredibly motivating to me.

Don't be afraid to quit. Half of doing anything is NOT doing something else. I often find myself in the middle of a project and realize I don't want (or need) to be doing it. Sometimes, you have to let go to move on. That's okay. (Read more about this here.)

learning to love the middle

When you think about it, we spend most of our time in the middle. We expend most of our energy not coming up with an idea or taking a bow on stage, but doing the work in between. The middle is where it all happens. Figuring out how to enjoy the process in our own way is incredibly important.

Hear more this week on ELISE GETS CRAFTY. Subscribe on iTunes or stream the episode here.

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19 responses to “learning to love the middle.”

  1. Sarah Alves Avatar
    Sarah Alves

    Hi Elise! Love this. Such good advice. Only recently (within the past year or so) have I given myself the space to quit something that I know in my heart is not bringing me joy. It can be so hard to let go, but 9 times out of 10 I am able to move onto something that feeds my creative soul more. You inspire me a lot, and even though I have never commented, I’ve been following your blog for a couple years now. Thank you for always sharing your stories!
    Sarah Alves

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  2. Stefanie Avatar

    My thanks to you. Your post on batch processing multi photos is singularly responsible to my becoming a blogger again.

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  3. Beth Avatar

    Love this. Can’t wait to listen to the podcast this week. And to check out Astrid’s quilts!

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  4. Brianna Avatar
    Brianna

    Good advice. I listened to your WDS speech last night. It was definitely something I needed to hear. You have a ton of wisdom.

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  5. kristina Avatar

    I love the idea of starting a first draft on your phone. It took me four evenings (after work) to write our engagement story (just shared yesterday) but that’s only because… three out of those four evenings were spent staring at a blank text box. “Where do I start?!” The first draft is always the hardest… once you start writing, it’s easy. Definitely going to try starting on my phone.
    Thanks for sharing Elise!!

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  6. JC Avatar

    This is so true. I also find that sometimes breaking down a project shows me all those little tasks that I don’t know how to do so I can get books or take classes before I really get started and end up half way through and lost. It’s a life saver.

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  7. Anna Avatar

    This seems to mesh well with your post a couple weeks ago about being “on the bridge.” It applies just as well to big career trajectories and individual projects, doesn’t it? So much of life is lived in the uncertain, sometimes-tedious middle.

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  8. Erika @ BlessedNotLucky.com Avatar

    I love your last paragraph – so well said and written. Thank you for the idea of doing your first draft on your phone. For me, I’m fine facing a blank page; it’s more of a time-constraint issue. This will help maximize my blogging time.

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  9. elise blaha cripe Avatar

    thank you! yes, quitting one thing sometimes makes it possible to do nine other things. 🙂

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  10. elise blaha cripe Avatar

    what?! that’s AWESOME! 🙂

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  11. elise blaha cripe Avatar

    yes! for sure. the “middle” represents small projects AND life. sometimes we spend YEARS “in the middle.” in someways, I think parenthood is “the middle”… and I mean that kindly. 🙂

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  12. Mickie Avatar

    Hello Elise :).
    I loved the podcast this week. I never miss one, although sometimes I delay listening to them until Friday, (house cleaning day) so that I can be sufficiently distracted from my boring duster by you and your lovely guests ;b.
    I think it would be super cool to have a podcast episode about building a business plan.. I’m working on that now…
    xoxo!
    Mickie

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  13. Casie Avatar
    Casie

    What an awesome idea to break up the bulk of the middle into smaller tasks! This way the middle doesn’t seem too daunting! Can’t wait to listen to the podcast. Sounds like this one deserves some note taking.

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  14. Shelley Avatar
    Shelley

    “The middle is where it all happens.”
    Golden!

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  15. Traci Avatar
    Traci

    I really love this.

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  16. Leah Avatar

    You mention that you dictate your posts into your phone. I would love to know more about this… I tried doing it with my iPhone 5C, just dictating directly into an email to myself, and I find that the dictation function keeps shutting off after about 30 seconds, so that I have to keep pressing it. Does this happen to you, and you just deal with it? Or is there another way to dictate into the phone?

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  17. Elise Avatar

    Yep that happens to me. I usually stop it after every four sentences or so.

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  18. Leah Avatar

    Ahh I see! I was thinking I could dictate stuff while I was driving but maybe not, LOL.

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  19. carrie wohlt Avatar

    Elise I LOVED this podcast. And omg Astrid’s quilts are BEAUTIFUL. Thank You for sharing this has inspired me to set some goals of my own for 2015. I would like to create 12 quilts of my own, read 52 books and write 52 short stories. I am try to stick 3 goals for 2015 and see where this takes me.

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