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an archived personal and craft blog from Elise Blaha Cripe.

The first week of September I documented a "Day in the Life." This project is something Ali Edwards got me hooked on. Ali documents one day towards the end of each month and includes them in her Project Life album. I decided to do one every four months this year. I took a day at the end of April, the beginning of September and ideally, I get one at the end of December. In April, I used all iPhone photos and shared on Instagram. This time around, I primarily used my DSLR. For the photos that I am in, I used either the built in timer or my camera remote.

So here we go … this is Thursday, September 5th 2013.


DITL1

6:00 AM / wake-up to an alarm. Head to the kitchen where Paul is making coffee and eating breakfast. This photo, the first of the day, is my favorite from the project.

DITL2

Head back to our bedroom to pump breastmilk. Bring it back out and prep Ellerie's first bottle. (Since Ellerie was five weeks old, I have been primarily pumping and bottle-feeding. She's thriving and I am happy so for us, this method of feeding is working very well.)

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Eat breakfast in front of the windows, read blogs, drink coffee.

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6:45 AM / Ellerie is still asleep so I start a load of laundry. Sit down at the computer. Deal with email. Check in on the Big Picture Classes message board (my Project Life Lessons workshop went live this morning). Prep photos for my "around here" blog post that will go up tomorrow.

7:30 AM / brush teeth & get dressed. Back to the office where I write thank you notes, deal with email & print shipping labels for stamp orders that will go tomorrow when they arrive.

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7:50 AM / hear Ellerie starting to stir. Grab her from the bassinet in our room and change her.

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Bottle feed her in front of the windows. Breakfast is the very best in that space.

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Change her clothes. Play on her floor and do some tummy-time. We've been doing tummy-time since she was a week old and she loves it.

She starts to get fussy so we walk around the house a bit.

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9:00 AM / Ellerie is asleep on my shoulder.

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I put her in the her chair, shake the blood back into my arm, move laundry and have a snack of apples and almond butter.

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9:15 AM / she is still asleep. I work on my Quilting eCourse. (I am hoping to launch this "go at your own past" online course in early October. More information to come.)

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9:43 AM / she wakes up in her chair. Diaper change and feed. I pump a bit more after she eats.

10:10 AM / move laundry and head to Target. Ellerie does really well on errands and I like to get them done in the mornings while she is awake. I keep her in the carseat and push the whole thing in the cart. We run errands to get stuff done (obviously) but also just to get out of the house on days where we don't have something else planned.

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11:05 AM / home from Target. Ellerie is asleep in carseat. I move her to her crib and she says out (this happens about 25% of the time). I quickly tidy the house, unpack bags and check email.

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11:30 AM / upload photos, work on blog posts (I tend to do bits of them at a time – this time it's the Project Life update and a pizza post). I check and respond to blog comments (I have stopped receiving them via email and I have noticed it's much more productive to just check in once or twice a day as opposed to responding as they come in).

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12:00 PM / eat lunch of leftover Thai quinoa salad and a peach.

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12:15 PM / more Quilt eCourse progress – ironing and laying out fabric while watching old episodes of the The Office on netflix.

1:20 PM / check email and the BPC message board.

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1:30 PM / hop in the shower. Afterwards, pump.

2:00 PM / sit back at the computer to work, but Ellerie wakes up. She's super happy post-nap. I change her and bottlefeed her then we wander the house so she can digest.

2:25 PM / Ellerie is again asleep in my arms. It usually takes her a few tries to really "wake-up" after her nap. I lay her in crib. While she is out I work at the computer.

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2:45 PM / she's awake again. We read and play in her room then I bring her to her chair while I have another snack. More play and baby babble.

3:30 PM / Ellerie eats a bit.

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3:45 PM / after feeding, she's asleep on my shoulder. I browse pinterest on my iPad and find a recipe for no-bake "energy bites". I'm thrilled to discover we have all the ingredients. I set her in her chair and mix the ingredients. (I ended up throwing in some sliced almond too – they were fantastic though difficult to get to hold together.)

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4:20 PM / E's awake from another cat-nap. Some afternoons we get one long nap, other days we get short cat naps. Some days we get both. Regardless, she always seems pretty content and thankfully my schedule makes it easy to  just roll with it. We go into her bedroom where it tends to be the coolest (this Southern California heat wave is awful).

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4:40 PM / after some more playtime and reading (obviously Ellerie is super interested in why Gerald the Giraffe cannot dance), Ellerie gets fussy so I feed her a bit more and she's good.

5:00 PM / get Ellerie into the ergo and clean up the house. Call my mom and we chat for about 20 minutes.

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5:30 PM / put Ellerie into her chair on the kitchen floor while prepping dinner. We're having leftover pizza and a big spinach salad. I am chopping ingredients for the salad and finishing my no bake cookies.

5:45 PM / pump quickly

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6:00 PM / Ellerie and I go for a short walk outside in the ergo and I regret it almost instantly…it's so hot out.

6:30 PM / Paul gets home. We give Ellerie a bath in the big tub. She's still not sure how she feels about bathtime, but I think they are growing on her. Never any tears, just wide-eyed stares as Paul and I both wipe her down.

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I get her changed into a bedtime onesie and Paul feeds her while we chat about the day.

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7:00 PM / we eat dinner with Ellerie on the table in her chair. (You might notice I am in my third outfit…no wonder we have so much laundry.)

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She falls asleep toward the end of dinner.

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We bring her into our bedroom, swaddle her and put in bassinet.

A few minutes later, she cries and we both go in, Paul feeds her a bit more and she's out for good.

8:30 PM / we watch Sons of Anarchy (we were re-watching season 5's last two episodes so we could be ready for the start of season 6) and fold the laundry.

9:30 PM / we brush teeth and get ready for bed. I pump one last time. Paul falls asleep almost instantly and I read my library book for about an hour. We are all lucky to sleep through the night and start the song and dance over again Friday.

Thoughts / It's hard keeping track of the times of things and remembering to take photos all day. It reminds me a bit of when I worked for a PR firm and I had to account for every 15 minutes of my time. Not so fun to do it in such detail, but I think this sort of thing is interesting to document and will be very cool to look back on. Life with an 11 week old baby = little chunks of time here and there and my goal each day is to be as efficient as possible with work and as present as possible with Ellerie and Paul.

ps…I am planning to write a post soon about how I have found some balance and how I am meshing motherhood and work. Look for that in the next week or so.

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55 responses to “day in the life / september 2013.”

  1. Ffion Avatar

    Lovely photos 🙂 I think it’ll be great to be able to look back at these in the years to come.
    Speaking of everyday, I’m wondering, do your typical “working days” keep to the same structure? I’m asking because I’m currently working from home as a graphics and webdesigner and still somewhat struggling to get into a routine of sorts. I think having a routine would help me get more stuff done, but I’m still working it out.
    Sometimes I love the flexibility, but sometimes I think I fall into idle time more often than I’d like because of the lack of structure.
    Any tips there? 😉

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  2. Sonja Avatar

    So lovely! I think, you did a good job!
    HaK
    Sonja

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  3. Rachel Avatar
    Rachel

    I didn’t know you guys watched Sons of Anarchy! Love that show. This was so fun to read. Thanks for sharing! 🙂

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  4. Carrie Avatar

    My very favorite thing about this entire post is the slight “imperfections” that are there. The drawers pulled out on your dresser, the plate left on the coffee table in the picture with the ironing board, toys left on the floor during tummy time. It’s all very real and comfortable, and I admire that. 🙂

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  5. Donna W Avatar
    Donna W

    I used to be able to recite Giraffes Can’t Dance off by heart – I loved reading that book to my kids! I’m sure E will love it when she grows up too.

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  6. Holly S Avatar
    Holly S

    Great look at your day! My observations after reading/looking at your pics…(like you care!! haha) I noticed you eat in one chair in front of the windows and feed her in the other-do you have a favorite feeding chair? Just curious. I like how you just go with it-most first time moms live by a schedule and get a bit frantic when baby deviates from it. Tummy time is cute-I notice all the pics you post of her on her tummy and it looks like she likes it a lot-when I had a baby, they slept on their tummies-how that’s changed! It seems like this day was easy peasy! Is it like that all the time? Love following you and your family so don’t stop letting us ‘in’!!

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  7. Catherine Avatar

    Love it! This is what blogging is all about for me–to be able to look back years later and see exactly what life was like. Good stuff.

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  8. Janell (Nell's Vintage House) Avatar

    Lovely pictures, albeit I am a bit jealous of the awesome napper and Sleep through the nighter your little E is. What I wouldn’t give for my little guy to be sleeping right now – this mamma needs a nap, and to unload the dishwasher, and to finish the laundry she started yesterday, and a nap! 🙂

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  9. liz Avatar
    liz

    Love these types of posts. Great photos. Curious what books you’re reading these days.

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  10. Ang Avatar

    This may be too personal but I would love to hear your experience with pumping. I too am exclusively pumping and I am still trying to find balance in my day. I am only 4 weeks in though.

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  11. Diana Avatar

    I really loved reading through this. I’m not sure why, but maybe because it’s truly interesting to hear about what others do during their days. Thanks for sharing 🙂
    xo
    Diana
    http://unusuallylovely.com

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  12. elise blaha Avatar

    This is a typical working day for me. It’s really about four hours of work spread out throughout the day. I PACK IT IN like you would not believe when she is asleep. 😉
    We are trying to figure out what is going to be best for the family .. if I’ll need more help with her, if I should take on less work, more work, etc. Still figuring it out…

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  13. elise blaha Avatar

    It’s my favorite right now, for sure! I hope she loves it!!

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  14. April Avatar
    April

    Hi Elise,
    I am expecting our first baby in February! I have thought a lot about pumping and then bottle feeding our baby. So interested in knowing a little more about the process you use for this and what you have learned. I’d love a reply email.
    Thanks so much! I so enjoyed your day in the life documentation.

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  15. elise blaha Avatar

    Thank you!
    I do change chairs! Not intentional, but it happens every day.
    In general, E is a very easy baby. Somedays her not sleeping for a long streak makes it “harder” but that’s more because I’m worried about my to-do list. 🙂

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  16. elise blaha Avatar

    I started at around 5 weeks. It’s gotten much faster and easier. I pump 4-5 times a day for about 6-10 minutes at a time (but I am making a lot of milk so that makes it much easier).
    Keep at it! I promise it will get better or at least you’ll get used to it 😉 I have the Medela pump in style pump.

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  17. elise blaha Avatar

    Shoot me an email. 🙂

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  18. Marija Avatar
    Marija

    I really like seeing how your days roll. Also, would love to know what books you are reading.

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  19. Meredith Avatar
    Meredith

    Are you doing anything to increase your milk supply? I see you got 2 full bottles in the morning and you said in just 6-10 minutes. I am pumping and breastfeeding but am heading back to work soon and fear I won’t make enough. I’m sure I will but would love some tips since you are exclusively breastfeeding.

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  20. brianna Avatar
    brianna

    It looks like you have a pretty good grip on motherhood and working life. I like the idea of doing a day in the life – I think I may add that to my blog rotation next year.

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  21. Marina Delgado Avatar

    Thank you for a beautiful peek into your day! You go girl on the pumping! My 4.5mo old #2 is a champ eater like her older sister but has gotten her first bottom teeth VERY early (at 3mo) so I definitely know when her top teeth are bothering her too…ouch!

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  22. Nichole Avatar
    Nichole

    I am continually impressed by your ability to effectively manage an compartmentalize life for maximum productivity. Your ability to aptly document it all through photographs and journaling without overdoing it is pretty impressive as well. I find it difficult knowing what is “enough” in terms of a weekly Project Life spread. Beautiful photos as always. 🙂

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  23. Vanessa Avatar

    I would also appreciate an email! I have a 10 wk old son who has had issues with his latch since birth (going to check if it’s lip tie this week actually) and breastfeeding has been going poorly. His weight gain has been crawling along slowly. Have started pumping more but would love to know why you switched and how you got into a schedule (how often, why, how much you typically get, how much you feed her in one sitting) as Ellerie looks very healthy and plump 🙂 Thanks a lot!

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  24. pianoB Avatar

    Wow! I’m admired at how it looks you make in the morning what I manage to accomplish (maybe) in one whole day… and you have a baby, while I don’t even own a pet.
    Maybe I should try keeping track of my actual schedule to figure out when and how I waste my time.
    Thanks for the input!

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  25. Linn Avatar

    Elise, I love these kinds of posts, it’s always so interesting to see what people do with their days. And I’m so impressed how much you manage to get done. This is is a ton of stuff to accomplish without baby, not to mention with!

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  26. Angela NJ Avatar
    Angela NJ

    Wow…my 10 year old is in school all day and I think it would take me three weeks to do all the work you did for this post. The first year of her life is a blur, so thank you for sharing the details of your day; maybe it’s not to late to document her 10th year 🙂
    When you have a moment, I would love to know more about the wall in your 9:15 am photo where you’re cutting fabric. It looks like you’ve attached square photos all over the wall and I would love to know what you did. Thanks.

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  27. Samantha Lee Avatar

    My favorite photo is of you and Ellerie reading on the floor. So sweet. 🙂

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  28. Cara Avatar

    OMG I love little Ell so much. xo

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  29. Ang Avatar

    Wow that’s great! 4-5 times a day seems like a vacation. Was your supply always that good from 5 weeks on?

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  30. elise blaha Avatar

    Yes … I’ve been blessed with a lot of milk.

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  31. elise blaha Avatar

    I don’t do anything special except stay consistent with it. My morning pump produces a ton (like you see in the photos) but usually I just get about 5-6 ounces total in the other pump times.
    I am lucky that my supply has been high. If it starts to dwindle, I just increase the pump time (let it run longer than milk is coming out) and that seems to help.
    My plan is to just keep at it and do what I can. Right now, I am able to keep E just on my milk and I am freezing some for a backstock so we will have that. If eventually we have to supplement with formula, we’ll do that. I can’t stress too much about it.
    Good luck! I hope things go well for you.

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  32. elise blaha Avatar

    Thank you!
    I am going to share more about that wall in my office next month I hope. 🙂

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  33. elise blaha Avatar

    That’s one of my favorites too. 🙂

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  34. Ffion Avatar

    Oh I believe it 😉 You’re amazing, I can’t believe how you churn out your projects and still manage to put so much love into each one.

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  35. Tiffany M. Avatar
    Tiffany M.

    I just did WITL and by the end of the week, I found it more and more difficult to get myself to take the photos and write what we were doing down. I am sure in the future I am going to love having this piece of my life, as I am sure you will.

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  36. Kathy Avatar

    I’ve completed my 5 year in a row doing WITL and I love this project. I loved looking at your day, the times and your thoughts. I’ve done photo a day for a year, December Daily and Week in the Life and generally take a photo anyway just about every day but the full on documenting your life from morning until bedtime is pretty full on however when you sit back and look at your photos, your routines, shows you are watching, food you are eating etc. it is so rewarding. Wouldn’t it be great to look back on a week in our life when we were say 5 year old. This type of documention of the days is so precious. I loved all your photos with the camera on the floor…….great perspective.
    By the way I have just had my birthday on Sunday and my birthday routine for the past 8 years is to take a photo of me with my 2 kids and 4 cupcakes with candles in them. The birthday girl gets to eat 2 cupcakes. It was just a little tradition that I started and I now have 8 years of them and we buy the same cupcakes from the same bakery however one year they were sold out. Nothing special about the cupcakes it’s just what we do. Since you are going to be moving around a lot in future years you could make your own cupcake each year on your birthday. Anyway take a look at the pics as it’s one of my favourite family traditions.
    http://www.oureverydaylifeinpictures.blogspot.com.au/2013/09/week-in-life-day-7.html
    Regards Kathy A, Brisbane, Australia

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  37. Sarah Avatar

    Gosh, I forgot how much little babies sleep! Mine is 13 months and in retrospect, I had so much more time when she was that little…too bad I was too exhausted to do anything. 😉 Very much looking forward to your post on balancing work and motherhood!

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  38. Ali Avatar

    Love. Just love.

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  39. Mye Avatar

    Ohhhh! I did the same thing with my boy – express breastmilk. because it worked best for both of us. He was born with Down Syndrome and congenital heart disease so he had a hard time latching. He did well after the surgery though but liked the bottle feeding better 🙂 I did it until he’s 3 months old and then the milk suddenly stopped so we’re now on formula 😦

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  40. Amanda Avatar

    I think my favourite photo is the one with all of you eating at the table. I practically cooed, “Aww! Look at her family!” haha
    Too funny that you mentioned that you were on your 3rd outfit. I had just thought that when I read it 🙂

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  41. Nihal Avatar

    I really love this series. I might start one soon.

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  42. Fiona Avatar

    What a wonderful glimpse into your days! It looks like a very relaxed way to keep family and work life balanced. I spent so much time with my first born trying to follow the advice of the health nurse and put him to sleep at the right times, that by the time he fell asleep I was exhausted. He loved sleeping on my shoulder, so I wish I would’ve just embraced that like you’ve done. By the time our third came along, I had a very different approach 🙂 Even though it was probably a lot of work to record the details of your days, it’s so worth it. Babies change so fast, and we forget just as fast what it was like. I always love reading your blog and find it so inspiring! Fiona

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  43. sweetmaddy Avatar

    I had no idea babies slept so much!!!
    Love that pic of you holding her and taking a pic.

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  44. Emma in Aust. Avatar
    Emma in Aust.

    Lovely post! This will be awesome to look back on, it also made me feel I was back there with my bubs who are now 7 & soon to be 5 which I can’t fathom! As much as a new bub is hectic it is also calm,and you captured this calmness beautifully. Not so much HAVING to be places at times etc. some days I would love to turn the clock back to days like these. Best wishes to you and your family 🙂

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  45. Lizzy Avatar
    Lizzy

    Loved seeing your day.

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  46. Jennifer Avatar
    Jennifer

    I have to chime in too and give a shout out for you being a pumping mother. You are awesome! I did it as well for my first daugther (now 13). There was absolutely nothing natural about nursing her and she was a slow gainer…but my husband had asthma so I stuck with it for a year. Just FYI, my 2nd daughter nursed easily and gained well from the start. No worries ever. Both are happy and health young women now. I know that it can be a lot of work-but so worth it. Love the pictures you have of you holding your daugther too. She is really looking different these days. It goes too fast!

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  47. royela Avatar

    ugh. I just shuddered reading the bit about timesheets. so glad not to ever have to do that again!

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  48. karen c Avatar
    karen c

    Lovely post!
    I have a kid with nut allergies, he’s 19 now. I don’t know what the current thinking is regarding nuts in breast milk but it’s a scary allergy and I notice you were eating nut butter and nuts. At one time they were saying to avoid nuts until kids were 2, including in breast milk. You’re probably on top of what they say now, but it’s a life-threatening allergy so I just wanted to mention it. I hope you don’t mind. I think you’re a super mother.

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  49. Michelle Cohen Avatar

    Elise,
    All I can say is, girl you are rocking it! This was an awesome post and it seems that you have established a great routine and balance in just 11 weeks! (although I know some days must be easier than others). It looks like Ellerie is a great baby and a great sleeper! Thanks so much for sharing your daily experience…I’m sure it’s a huge inspiration to all the new moms out there.

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  50. Ani Avatar

    So fun to watch a day in your life… You’re more productive in this one day than I have been all week – thanks for the inspiration!

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