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an archived personal and craft blog from Elise Blaha Cripe.

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As mentioned in my Project Life update post this week, alllll the cards I sent to Paul while he was deployed in Afghanistan for nearly seven months, finally arrived back at home. It's a terribly long story about why they took so long, but the point is the post office came through and they are here again.

I sent him about 100 cards. All different ones. Postcards from travels, 99 cent Hallmark cards, Etsy cards, expensive cards, personal stationery, the works. And man, I went on and on with my thoughts on the inside. It's hilarious to re-read them now. I hardly remember all the nonsense I babbled on about.

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But cards are my thing. And they were something easy I could do often and for the most part, inexpensive in the long scheme of things. I loved the hunt for the perfect card. I loved knowing that two weeks would have passed before he opened them. I loved when he told me he liked a card enough to hang it on his bulletin board at work. That was probably the best challenge. What could I send him that he'd deem good enough for the board?

Anyway. The short story is that these 100 cards are a huge part of our love story and something I am so so grateful to have back home again. I have them all in a cardboard box (along with the birthday cards!!) and will be saving them in something nicer for years to come. But I wanted to make something special out of a few of our favorites. I played with this idea in my head for a few days and happily, it turned out amazing and better yet – was totally free!

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I re-purposed a frame we've had with other artwork in it for a few years. There was a piece of thick white cardstock in the frame already and I just flipped it and taped (with a simple loop of scotch tape) the cards in a pleasing layout. I purposely choose cards that were all the same size (A2 or 4.25×5.5) so the cards would feel cohesive and then left a decent portion of mat to make them look like little pieces of artwork instead of something sixteen year old me would have stuck on the wall. The inside messages of the cards are of course the most important part, but they are preserved, inside the frame, for years down the line when we want to remember what our love looked like in 2011.

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I am so happy with how it turned out. It's better than I thought it would be and is going to look totally rad leaning against the wall on Paul's new desk (which is in progress – we ordered hairpin legs yesterday!).

And because I enjoy sharing fantastic card resources, these are a few of my favorite places to purchase cards.

It was so wonderful to have an excuse to buy cards. I sent Paul the widest range ever. Sappy and G-rated to sexy and R-rated (what is the point of being in love without racy cards?) to completely nerdy (yes, some video game cards made the rotation).

ps : here's how I made Paul's birthday special while he was deployed.

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35 responses to “what i did with all those deployment cards.”

  1. October Bishop Avatar

    A little off point but i may have to move to the US, simply for all the awesome paper supply stores you have over there! x

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  2. christen Avatar
    christen

    Love it!

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  3. melissa Avatar
    melissa

    Years ago, I did something similar to this (http://www.marthastewart.com/273781/envelope-guest-book) with the ~80 notes I received from my wedding guests. I love that I was able to preserve the envelopes with the cards and it is fun to open the album and then open each little envelope to read what’s inside. Twelve years later, that album still makes me happy.

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  4. Robyn Avatar

    Fantastic that you sent all those cards! What a lovely thing to do..and even better that you now have them back to keep. Love what you have done with the frame!

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  5. Misti Avatar

    Great idea! Wayyy back in 1997-1998 when my husband were in our last year of HS (then just dating) we sent each other letters. I have them all in hat boxes just sitting there accomplishing nothing. I may have to do something similar to this one day…he even drew some really cool things on the front of the envelopes.
    I’ll have to file this away for inspiration!

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  6. Melissa D Avatar
    Melissa D

    My dad was overseas for over a year during Vietnam. Their letters are in a great big bag in their closet, and I’ve been told in NO UNCERTAIN TERMS that, as executor of their estate, I am to burn them without reading them when the time comes. :0
    They’ve been married for nearly 39 years. ❤
    (I did ask them to save a few of the non-racy ones for us…my dad snickered.)

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  7. Frankie Avatar

    I love this! What a wonderful idea. It looks great the way you matted it, instead of doing like a full grid! I have to see if my boyfriend still has any of the cards I’ve given him over the years!

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  8. Cecilia Avatar

    What a great way to preserve such special sentiments. Nice tip on spreading them out so the mat shows.

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  9. Laura Avatar
    Laura

    You inspired me to send cards to my boyfriend while we are living in different states, and I wondered what I would do with all the cards. Thank you for the idea! I have something else to look forward to making when we are together again!

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  10. Skye Avatar

    I love this! What a sweet reminder of your love for him to see every day at his desk. 🙂

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  11. elise blaha Avatar

    This made me laugh out loud. That is awesome! I would say 90% are good for our kids to see. 😉

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  12. Marloes Pieper Avatar

    Dear Elise,
    I discovered your blog a few weeks ago and I’ve been coming back almost everyday since. I get such a positive and hopeful vibe from your words and photographs. Almost every post tears me up because what you say really touches me deep inside. Haha, this sounds a bit heavy but it’s been a relief to find your blog!
    I just wanted to mention this; The Choir Military Wives. I watched it the other night and it reminded me of you. I felt the same hopeful feeling within their singing as I read in your words.
    Thank you for blogging 🙂
    Marloes

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  13. Michelle Avatar

    I gave my sweetie the anatomy of love card 😉

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  14. Liz Avatar
    Liz

    Elise-
    I have the same love for cards! My future career goal is to start a family and make my own line like your favorite shops listed. What do you look for in the cards you buy? paper stock, content, color? I’m sure all of that…just researching 🙂 Thanks for your blog. Visit daily.

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  15. elise blaha Avatar

    message. what it said was absolutely the most important. 🙂

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  16. Leah Avatar

    Yes! Sex is a private thing, for sure, so I obviously don’t expect you to write about it on the blog. But it’s also SUCH an important part of a great love story – a way we show each other intimacy, sweetness, and desire. Mm hmm!!

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  17. Megan Avatar

    I love this. I send my guy cards all the time. He thinks it is silly, especially when we were living in the same city. I think a good old fashioned love note is amazing! I busted him when I moved in and found the shoe box of all the cards I sent him. Now that I have had to move away for work, I still send him cards all the time. The funny ones, sweet ones, and yes, the racy ones. I love paper source. I have found a few cute ones including “i am bat shit crazy for you”. I think that was his fav.

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  18. Debie Avatar

    I love this idea!! 🙂

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  19. Pink Ronnie Avatar

    This is so sweet, and such a wonderful idea. Makes me think that maybe I should start getting and writing some cards for my hubby…
    Ronnie xo

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  20. Luann Avatar

    three cheers for cards!

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    marcela

    thanks for the links Elise, i love cards, all my family and friends know that the card is more important to me than the present 😉
    here is one link u might like as well:
    http://www.etsy.com/shop/shopsaplingpress
    well and this one 😉
    http://www.etsy.com/shop/sycamorestreetpress

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  22. elise blaha Avatar

    Yes! Love both of those shops. 🙂

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    ana smith

    Great idea, even for us folks aren’t in the military.
    I love cards, so I think I’ll dig through mine for some favorites to display.
    p.s. thank you to your husband and your family for your service to all of us.

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  24. Kathy Martin Avatar

    How cool! Treasured keepsakes! It’ll be amazing to pour over these when your old!

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  25. Vera Avatar

    oooh nice project! Definitely a wonderful way to preserve the cards, and would be fun to read them decades from now 🙂

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  26. Kristi Avatar

    Elise, that looks so great! I love how it is all these modern, urban, retro looking cards together, and not just the sketched and cheesy hallmark ones 🙂 Definitely a work of art in your home, and with lots of meaning!

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  27. Ann-Marie Avatar

    this is SO genius, i love it!

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  28. Lesley Avatar

    Hi Elise,
    My store is sweetgeek! I got all these hits on my store yesterday and sold so many cards, I thought to myself, what is going on? And then I see your site and I didn’t care about the sales, or the hits, or anything.
    Your art makes me smile. And I feel so so special my work is a part of your memories.
    Thank you, and I’m happy you liked the geeky cards! 🙂

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  29. elise blaha Avatar

    haha – that is awesome. my husband LOVED your cards. thank you!! 🙂

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  30. Julie Kelley Avatar

    This is such a wonderful idea!!

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  31. sarah Avatar

    this is awesome!

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  32. Chrystina Avatar

    I love the thought of having somebody to buy cards for. Kind of makes me want to try to find a pen pal…

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  33. Koko @ Koko Likes Avatar

    LOVE this idea. It came out SO SO cute!

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  34. Liz Avatar
    Liz

    Thanks! agree.

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  35. Keli Avatar

    This is fantastic. Thanks for the credit.
    Keli @ Colette Paperie

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