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Todo 5
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It has been a week since the transfer of the ring and I feel like we have an outline of a plan. On Saturday, we met with friends of ours, who are getting married in July, and I was given the Real Simple Weddings Book. It is beautiful and also insanely overwhelming. It details all that there is to do and really puts a wrench in my theory that this was going to be well, really simple. Ahem.

But since last Monday evening, we have picked a date. This was probably the quickest decision to make as there is a narrow window of time between the day Paul stops working as a med student and the day he starts working as a real-live doctor.

We have reserved (at least I think it is reserved… Dad?) a ceremony location. It is the church that my parents currently attend and the same place that Paul's parents were married (plus it has a fabulously long aisle).

We have two-thirds of a guest list, though after hearing what a wedding costs per head, I am nervous about having to go at that list with a red sharpie and make some cuts.

We have arranged flights to go back to Sacramento in early May to look at reception venues. I am anxious to learn more about this place.

I have decided to consider just buying hundreds of pretty flowers and tossing them into little Ikea vases for decoration at the reception.

And of course, I have already come up with a sketch for the handmade programs, invites, save-the-dates and guestbook. But, let's be honest, that I have had mapped out since January.

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15 responses to “and we’re off!”

  1. Breanne Crawford Avatar

    sounds like you have a pretty good hold on it all!! how exciting!! make sure you take the time to enjoy the planning! 🙂

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  2. KathleenLoughran Avatar

    congratulations to you. I wanted to elope several times during the planning process…
    I was also grateful for the checklist on theknot.com. You can customize it. It helped with the time line.
    Also tell the dress shop and tailor your wedding date is at least AT LEAST three weeks before the actual date. simply trust me on this, it will save your nerves as no other plan will. Had I not done so and a friend not done so neither of us would have had dresses for our day. I am just saying…

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  3. Sara Avatar

    Good luck, no that you need it–you are a wonderfully organized planner person! It will be fun watching it unfold here on your blog.

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  4. kitchendoor Avatar

    What an exciting adventure. Congratulations, Elise!

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  5. Stephanie Howell Avatar

    elise, whatever you go with will be beautiful.
    j and i had a week to plan our wedding. we had planned a huge west point wedding down to every detail, but he found that he would be deployed before the date, so we decided to just get married.
    i taught the entire week before our wedding. j was in charge of most of the details. he got the flowers i loved, the chapel at my church and my preacher, and had my dream dress (that wasn’t to be made until the summer) made and overnighted.
    many things were missing from our wedding. no programs or wedding party…my maid and matron of honor selected their own dresses and flowers. no violinist that i envisioned, the church pianist played some hymns and also america the beautiful. no first dance or band…we had the reception at the empty house my parents had just left.
    here’s the point. all the people we loved were there. there was standing room only in that little chapel. and our friends still talk about how much they loved our wedding b/c the love we had for eachother was palpable.
    you will love your wedding b/c you LOVE eachother. don’t let the little things overwhelm you. i know they won’t.

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  6. Jessica Fulkerson Avatar

    you are where i am, 9 months into my engagement. let’s say i had a slow start…
    don’t feel like you have to consider or read about every single element that could be in your wedding. i knew what i wanted and haven’t strayed from that. i also haven’t bought a single book or magazine because i tapped into a few great wedding blogs and did the rest with my imagination. there is simply too much out there to consider it all, without going insane.
    good luck!

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  7. sarah Avatar

    i don’t envy the stress that comes with wedding planning…but steph gave you good advice. good luck + have fun!
    also, ranunculus! i LOVE them…very good choice!

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  8. Creole Wisdom Avatar

    Oh this is so much fun to see what you are going to do. That church looks lovely. I like Lutheran churches (I grew up in MN, although I was raised Catholic, and have a Lutheran bf : ) That venue is gorgeous, too. Good luck with all of it- and I hope it is simple and easy to do!

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  9. melanie Avatar

    all that’s left is the dress…almost. good times.
    i used those lil ikea vases, and hydrangeas stolen from neighbors yards and the middle of the road – worked like a charm 🙂

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  10. Heather Brittany Avatar
    Heather Brittany

    Chills all over!! So excited to see pictures of everything! 😀

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  11. Stephanie Wheeler Avatar

    If I can give any advice about planning your own wedding, I would say REMEMBER IT’S ONLY ONE DAY. So many girls forget this and after it’s all over, they’re sad they spent so much time, money and effort on one.day.
    I am a designer and I did only invitations, no programs, no RSVP cards, etc. I knew that if I took on too much (as I usually do), I’d regret not taking the time to enjoy our engagement.
    We had a wonderful wedding with wonderful food and everyone we love. And all for less than $3,000.

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  12. Dinah Avatar
    Dinah

    I’m so excited for you! I’ve always thought that making the guest list would be the hardest part of a wedding! Would it be taboo to make the list smaller for the actual ceremony and then massive for the reception? I’ve always thought that would be a neat way to plan a wedding…but maybe a little risky.
    Congrats Elise!!

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  13. lanne Avatar

    If the guest list exceeds the budget you can do two things – cut or rearrange. I have no idea about there but here, many people have lots to the ceremony (at say 2pm) and then a light afternoon tea afterwards..(until say 3:30pm then only a select group go on to a dinner (at 6pm). There is usually a gap for photos so everyone leaves the ceremony site anyway.
    We wanted about 110 people that we really valued and wanted to be a part of our day. We found a gorgeous venue. Their minimum spend for a Saturday was $15K. Our whole wedding budget was about $4k LOL We got married on a Sunday morning and had a beautiful morning tea (we ordered their corporate morning tea set out as a buffet).. it was divine.. all little mini treats.. and came in at $1500 total, including drinks and room hire. We celebrated with everyone and then after a few hours we went next door to a cafe with about 20 (wedding party and some friends who had flown in).. and we partied there for another 5 hours or so.
    Sunday was lovely and relaxed and everyone was open to negotiating prices because it wasn’t the typical Saturday wedding.

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  14. Stephanie Osborn Avatar

    Congratulations Elise! Your wedding will be beautiful!!
    Have you ever used the growers direct place you linked? I am getting married too and was wondering how they were.

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